April 1967 - including the Junior Prom

"Saturday, April 1 

Dear Diary,

Gosh, was I tired today! Could hardly get up. Paul, Linda, & I kidded around all day. Had pizza for lunch. Joan & John stopped in. Navin & I went to the Sq. Met Virginia Studley (one of my mother's best friend's) - she gave me Allan's address. Now all I have to do is write another letter. Talked to Lee in the Drugstore. About 6:30 I got ready to go with Liz, Marie, & Birdie. Liz & Marie didn't get here until 8. Picked up Birdie & Pat - and off we went. Had dinner in the Villa in Framingham. Rode around Framingham - waving at boys - Pat & Marie whistled at 'em. Liz had to be home at 11:30. So I got home about 11.   Nite"

"Sunday, April 2

Dear Diary,

Actually it's 90 days till we go to Falmouth - I haven't been counting Sat, July1. Went to Mass with Patty, Mary, & Kathy. Saw David. Chris left for the seminary about 8 - I only saw him once the whole time he was home. Mary, Patty, & I walked around the Sq all afternoon. Saw Dennis Staires 3 or 4 times - didn't talk with him too long. Had pizza in the W House. Walked Mary to the McLoughlin's ... Joan, Diane, Mike, Maureen McKenzie, & I had to dance for the Couples Club St Paddy's Day Show - we were the 'Killarney Kittens.' Claire Milmore, Buttons Miranda, & Mike Fitzgerald were there. Saw David Sheehan's mother & Red Jack from the Drugstore among others.    Nite"

The Killarney Kittens! What's with that?!? I can't believe they called us that!! How embarrassing!

"Monday, April 3                Janet Smith's birthday

Dear Diary,

Didn't do all my homework last night but what the hell. Fr Cronin gave out report cards today. Guess What! I got straight A's and all 4's in attitude. Great, eh? Dashed to work - Susan walks to the river with me & then we part. Dennis was there as usual - hid my schoolbag a couple of times. Helped me put on my jacket & hit me in the chest. He knew he did it - but was it deliberate? Navin came down after supper & we taught Christine how to jump rope. Went to Frank's. Passed a few remarks with the kids there - boys. Watched The Monkees, Rat Patrol (Sue called), & Felony Squad. Did some homework.   Nite"

"Tuesday, April 4

Dear Diary,

Not much happening in school ... was 15 minutes late for work because I mailed a letter to Allan Studley (had to wait 5 minutes to get a stamp). Susan walked to the river with me. Not much doing at the library - didn't feel like working - ended up putting YA stickers on books. Met a kid named Jim, Dennis' friend, - nice kid. While we 3 were waiting for Mrs Staires, Dennis grabbed my shoe & wouldn't give it back. They were throwing it back & forth to each other. He asked me to go skating with him, Paul, Cheryl, & Jim on Sat. Too bad I have to work. Went to Navin's to do English. Damn Mary went babysitting. Did homework. Listened to records.   Nite"

"Wednesday, April 5

Dear Diary,

That bitch of a May Bob is forcing everyone in the high school to be a sponsor for the Senior play. It's unfair! They didn't sponsor our dance. She can go to blazes. Sue & I had cokes in Butler's. Was 15 mins late for work today. Dennis again asked me to go skating - said I'd love to but I have to work. Got a ride home as usual. Dennis is trying to get friendlier - past two days he's had his arm around my shoulder. Brought prizes & chances back to Mary. Pat McDermott is going to Canada! - so is his girlfriend. I wore his sunglasses tonite. Mary bought a ticket for the play. Talked with Lee for a while. Was up till 11:30 with homework.   Nite"

"Thursday, April 6

Dear Diary,

Do you know that Rose Patrice doesn't yell at me when I'm talking? She just looks over or frowns but never says a word. I was 10 minutes late for work. He's getting there! I was reading the WHS newspaper - (big write up about Ronnie making a surfboard) & he came over, put his arm around my shoulder, & we stood there leaning on one another. We were upstairs in the stacks & he blocked me in one section - wouldn't let me out. I fixed some books & we talked. I was waiting for him to try something, but he didn't. He & Joe might quit. He invited me to a Demolay Installation (Mary Pat too). He wants to go to Nantucket with me & Joan (he'd take someone along for her) & we'd take the first boat & leave her behind. I guess he still likes her. Doesn't bother me.   Nite"

"Friday, April 7

Dear Diary,

Got out of school at 2:40. Sue & I had cokes in 5& 10 & Butler's. Was 5 mins late for work - got paid $9.32 for the first week. Dennis is getting too friendly - pulling & fixing my hair in different ways, had his hands on my throat, lifted me off a table I was sitting on, etc. I wonder about Joe - he follows me around yet seems to dislike me. Would you believe that it snowed today? Well, it did - it's all slushy. Went to the Whist Party. Mary told me Pat McD was coming so Joan & I waited in a coatroom to check his coat, but had to relieve Diane who was punching - he came in 5 mins later. The kids wouldn't let us punch so we played cards with him all nite long. He's neat!   Nite"

"Saturday, April 8

Dear Diary,

I hate Paul McCaffrey! He expects miracles of us! He can go to blazes! We're moving to a new location next Sat. Right beside American Laundries. On the way to the 5 & 10, Mary & I met Sue & her l'il brother Chris. We all had cokes in 5 & 10, bought nylons, & walked her home. She walked us to the Sq & Star Market. Left her in the Sq - I'm going to the play tomorrow with her & Paul. Mary & I bought ice cream cones in McManus'.  Had an ice cream fight all the way home. Went babysitting at 7:45 for McClennens. Did my homework, watched tv, & read Seventeen Magazine - real exciting. Got home at 12:30(?). Got $2.50. Joanie (staying over nite), Patty & I stayed up till 3 at least - I think (it's 2:15 now). Pete (reporter for (Watertown) Press is going to Thailand.   Nite"

"Sunday, April 9

Dear Diary,

Because of me, Joanie & Patty missed the Fathers' & Daughters' Communion Breakfast - I shut off the alarm & forgot to tell them. We three went to the 11:45 Mass. Dave was there. Ma came to dinner - had turkey. At 2:30 everyone went to Rita's to see her baby, Michael Joseph, before his Baptism. Mary & Johnny were Godparents - Mary acted kinda snooty - hope I didn't act that way (I was Joanne's and John Huliston's Godmother.) Joan, Diane, Patty, & I walked home. Went to Frank's - Panessi was there. Met some kids Joan knows. I watched tv while they listened to records. Sue & Paul never picked me up to go to the play. FBI was great - Jim got shot. Stephen Brooks is terrific!                                                G'nite"

"Monday, April 10,

Dear Diary,

I hate school! I can barely keep my eyes open during class. I can't wait for vacation. Sue & I went to the dentist - I thought I had to have a tooth pulled, but I didn't. We bought gingerbread men in the bakery. I was 20 mins late for work. I told Dennis what Joan said 'Fuck you.' He was really hurt & upset. Wrote her a letter saying if that's what she wants, just set a time & place. He asked me to go roller skating Fri nite - but I'm babysitting - thank God. He & his mother both asked me to go to the Demolay Installation Sat - I will if I can get someone to go with. Mary Navin & I went to the Seniors' play - it was good. Starred Kathy Whittingham (our cousin), Linda Maffioli (great), Janice O'Hara (good), Mary Kelleher (good), Paul McCurley & John Regan. Watched Academy Awards . Did homework. See ya"

Tuesday, April 11 (written on April 5 page)

Dear Diary,

Look what I did - last Wed I skipped these 2 pages & didn't even notice it! I kept falling asleep in school - I dislike Rose Patrice intensely. Gave Joan Dennis' note ... Sue & I bought gingerbread men again. 10 mins late for work. I dread going to work now - I don't want to see Dennis. Told him I could go to the Demolay Installation Sat, - found out Mrs Dickie needs a babysitter - I'm going! Told Mrs Castle I'd be late tomorrow - Sr Florentia said she'd keep us after school if we didn't know Latin. Went babysitting for Dickies at 7:30. Emma got home at 8:20. Joan called just as I left. Did homework.   Nite"

"Wednesday, April 12,

Dear Diary,

What a mess this diary is! Only 80 days till July 1. Not much is happening at school - no one can stay awake. I had told Mrs Castle that I would be late so Sue & I had cokes & brownies in Butler's. Went to the bakeshop but they didn't have any gingerbread men. Dennis wasn't at work today - Thank God. I had to put records away - his job! Walked home with Joe. Sue might get a summer job at Perkins. Went to Frank's & bought stuff for Patty & Lee - babysitting at McLoughlin's - there was nothing to eat but pickles. Did homework. Watched tv. Sue called about 8:30. Bobby H was there & some others playing guitars & singing. Marie called too at 9:30.   Nite"

"Thursday, April 13

Hi Di,

Tomorrow's the last day of school for a week - terrific! Not much knew at school. Oh for a change I passed the hearing test - I usually flunk. Diane Patrick walked to the Sq with us, & Sue went off with her. Saw Bobby Harrington. Not many Juniors are going to the prom - I'm one of 'em. Denis was at Perkins today. I gave him a note from Joanie - it said 'go to hell.' Said he was going to send her another note. Didn't do too much today. Told him I couldn't go Sat. I think he knows that I didn't want to go. Only had four subjects for homework & I was finished by ten. Watched Dean Martin, ironed.   Bye"

"Friday, April 14

Dear Diary,

No school for a whole week! Just as I was leaving, Rose Patrice told me to empty the waste-basket. After that, Sue & I scrammed outa there. We were going to get cokes, but she met her mother who took her along. Got home about 12:45. At 2 I went to Gorins & bought a pair of slacks. I arrived at Perkins at 2:30 - an hour early. Hafta go next week from 9 - 12 every day. Told the boss I was going away during July, & she said 'we can work something out.' Went babysitting for McClennens at 7. Talked to Susan for 10 mins. I was using their typewriter when they came in. Got $3.  See ya around"

"Saturday, April 15

Dear Diary,

Paul picked me up on the way to work. We moved into a new office today - it's nifty. Spent the whole day fooling with him & the paperboys - one kid asked how he could put up with my yelling all day - the little devil. Paul won't be there for 3 weeks - Sandy will! Went to Sq with Navin - she's going to Washington with Girl Scouts tomorrow - the dog. Saw Marie, Liz, & Sandy Mosca in 5 & 10. - Oh yeah, Mary had her hair cut short! I like it that way - she looks cute. Went babysitting at the Dickies at 8:30. They got home at 3:15 - I got $5. Oh, Mum bought me a 3 piece suit!    G'nite"

"Sunday, April 16

Dear Diary,

Could hardly get up this morning - I was so tired. Went to 11:45 Mass - it's raining again today. Jimmy went to have his tonsils out. Took a shower & washed my hair about 6:30. Joanie & I went to Mary Flynn's at 8, & she & Mike took us to Dorchester (?) (we danced there about a month ago) to dance. Steve Carney (Another Irish dancing teacher) was there - no young folks. Left at 10:30 for the Hibernian Building on Dudley St. They asked us to dance so we did. There was 1 boy there our age. He asked Joanie to dance. Later Mike told me he wanted to meet me! So how come he danced with Joan. We left a few mins later. It's now 12:30.   Nite"

"Monday, April 17

Dear Diary,

Had to get up early to go to work., but I overslept. Arrived at Perkins at 9:15 - 15 mins late. That Mrs Ullette (?) said I could only work 7 1/2 hrs this week. Actually I'm supposed to work 10 hrs a week, but because of school I can only work about 7 1/2. Went to dancing school about 1. We have to have $12 for the rooms before next Wed. I hope we won't have to pay Jay's way - like we had to sell all his chance books ... Hannie was making a big fuss because we told Mary last nite we didn't want Diane in our room & Mary put her in Hannie's room. I just hope it won't be the same way in Falmouth. Jimmy was awfully sick today - might not come home tomorrow. Mickey's great!   Bye"

"Tuesday, April 18

Dear Diary,

Got up at 12:45 - no one called me for a change. Jimmy came home about 11:30. It was drizzly & rainy - a real great day, uh? Just like yesterday - hope it isn't like this all week. I cleaned my half of the room  & rearranged the furniture. Listened to records til 4. While watching 77 Sunset Strip, I ironed. Joanie stopped by - going home from Mt Auburn - candy-stripping. Went babysitting at 7:30 for the Strongs. She is going to have her baby in 2 weeks. They got back at 9 - the movie they were going to see was sold out. Got $1. Watched a movie with Sophia Loren - so-so. Called RKO - talked a while with the guy. Have to work tomorrow.   Bye"

"Wednesday, April 19

Dear Diary,

Went to work at 9. Saw Dennis - he was very cold. Now all he talks about is Joan. I definitely dislike him ... When I got home, everyone was yelling about something great that happened - Bobby Harrington asked me to the Prom. I thought they were kidding so I called Susan. She confirmed what they said & about 3 we went to see him. I'm glad to be going but I'm not all fluttery. We saw Liz later & told her - she just shrugged. I felt like gloating because sometimes she's so snooty, but I didn't let myself do it. Sue & I walked around & went to King's. Walked thru 5 & 10 on way home - saw John - he thinks Berta is going to ask him to the prom but she is going with Bob Cook & Sue & Paul, them, Bobby & I are tripling. I feel bad for John. Bye"

I didn't remember Bobby Harrington leaving a message about the Prom. I thought Susan Cook told me that he would go if I asked him. I also thought I went to the Sq where he worked by myself and was a nervous wreck. I don't remember who said what - just that I was excited to be going to the Prom. I'll have to think about this some more - perhaps it will come back to me!

"Thursday, April 20

Dear Diary,

Today was the first sunny day of our vacation! Got up about 10:15. As I headed for the Strongs, I met Ann Dickie - told her about being invited to the prom - she was almost excited as Mum. Stayed at Strongs till 1 - Patty & Lee took over. I went to the McClennens - had to take care of Margy & Ruth Gallagher (next door neighbor). Told Mrs McClennen about the prom, & she, like Ann, wants to see the gown. Margy is adorable - I simply love her. Ruthie was fussy most of the time. They returned about 5:15 - got $3. Walked Joan (she had stopped by) to Summer St & stopped at Mary Power's. After supper I went to the Sq with Patty & Lee - bought mascara. Moe called up & got me awfully excited over the prom. I'm cooling off now.   Bye"

"Friday, April 21

Dear Diary,

Got up at 9. Went to Boston with Mum about 9:30. Went to Jordan Marsh, Conrad & Chandler, Gilchrist, & Filene's. Lots of nice gowns - especially white empire waist-line ones with long tails or bows down the back. Saw one in J M I liked so we had the woman hold it for a week. Got home about 2. Went to work at 3. Got my check - $18.62. Went to Moe's at 8:30. We watched UNCLE while waiting for Berta & Pat Green, Liz, Marie & Mary Craig. Pat, Mary & I watched Laredo - they think it is great! Had a hootenanny. Gossiped - mostly about Mary ---- - she wasn't invited. No one seems to like her any more. Got home about 12. Nite"

I had wanted a gown with long sleeves because my arms were fat - of course that was not the style. Then I couldn't wear anything made with some stiff material - maybe taffeta - because it irritated my skin. I certainly made it difficult to find a dress. My mother would be able to make some alterations because she took sewing in Home Economics at Watertown High and made some of her clothes. 

"Saturday, April 22

Dear Diary,

Paul was at the fire station today, so Mr McKenna came. He's not too bad. Got home about 2:30. Around 3 Dad drove Mum & me to Waltham - we made the rounds of the stores - didn't find anything I liked or anything I liked didn't fit - I'm between sizes - 13 (with a straight skirt) is too small - 15 is too big. Went to Filene's in Belmont - found a fabulous yellow dress with a train - just what I wanted - it was too small! - had them hold it till Tues. I'm so sick of trying on gowns! I was tired tonite so I gave up 2 chances for babysitting. Watched tv - nothing good on - all repeats. Went to bed about 11:30. Only 6 days till the PROM!!! Nite"

"Sunday, April 23

Dear Diary,

Arose at 11:20 - decided to go to 5:30 Mass with Mary. Went back to bed. Went to Navins about 3:30. Stayed a while - Mary couldn't go out because of her cold - so Joan & I went to Frank's. Had to wait 10 mins for Frank P to come & open it. Joan called Bill's (a kid on RKO request line) dormitory - he wasn't there so she talked with his roommate - she introduced me to him - he's 5'8" - 19 - drives - brownish-blond hair. Talked 2 mins with him. He wants to meet me sometime - hope he doesn't think I'm a whore. Mary & I went to Mass with Peg. Making progress with Pete - he hid my shoes, asked us to play Monopoly, & talked to me. Like to go to the prom with HIM! Bye"

Reading this entry, I'm wondering why I thought someone would think I was a whore! Did I even know what a whore was?! I don't think I even knew what sex actually was at this point. I was shocked when I read what intercourse was in a Perkins staff library medical book some time later than this - I remember sneaking it home and showing Mary & Patty. We were really stupid in those days. Out of the blue one day in the living room, Mum asked me if I knew where babies came from. I was so embarrassed to think that she would ask me! I said something like "from a husband and wife kissing and hugging and stuff" - having no clue what the "stuff" was. I guess she hoped that I knew because that was the end of that conversation and there were no others!

I'm not sure when I received this letter from Allan Studley which is postmarked April 23 but I am including it here unless I mention it further on. I don't remember if I ever wrote back to him.

"A2C Allan F Studley

355 Cmbt Spt Gp

AF 11449108 PACAF

Box 2604

APO s/f96273

                                        Mary Ellen Manning                                                                                59 Marshall St                                                                                            Watertown, Mass                                                                                                            02172"

                                        

"Dear Mary Ellen,

    You'll have to forgive me for not writing sooner. We have been pretty busy. 

    As far as the new songs go, I haven't heard any of them. 

    And for skirts being up and up. Well the girls we do see over here wear sarongs which cover as far down as their ankles.

    Just imagine what we'll all be like when we get back to the states. What I mean is being stationed over here a year or 2 years and not seeing a blonde brunette or a red head with round eyes and fair skin. Look out states here we come.

    Well as for baseball, count me out. I'm not too much of a baseball fan. 

    I'm more of a roller skating fan. Mainly because I teach Figure Skating. And dance skating. I'm trying for Regional Dance Competition in Dallas Texas ..

"That is I'll try for it when I get back to the states.

    Well Mary I have to go now. So be good and say Hi to everyone for me. And how about a snapshot. I don't exactly remember what you look like.

                                                                    Sincerely,

                                                                        Allan Studley"

I remember being surprised that Allan was into roller skating - I don't know why - roller skating was a big deal at the Wallex in Waltham. I guess I thought it seemed odd for a guy to be into roller skating, and not into baseball!

"Monday, April 24

Dear Diary,

I skipped school today! Mum & I went to Boston for a gown about 9:30. Went to Filene's, Kennedy's, & Raymond's - saw 2 dresses there that I like - $25 each. The saleswoman was a pushy bitch! I hated her - she was a hypocrite! We went to Jordan Marsh & I saw a yellow one - so I had to choose between the one they were already holding & the yellow - I took the yellow. Also bought a purse, long gloves, & a slip = $9 plus a $4 jacket to wear to school. Went to work at 3:15 - Mrs C & Mrs M were excited - told me not to come to work Fri. Called Joanie about 6 & told her Dennis was going to call her - he called me first - she set him straight ... Bill told her Jace (talked to him yesterday) is crippled. Bill might come out Thurs. Ann came over to see my gown, so did Mary Pat. Jay wants to double with Bobby & I.   Nite"

"Tuesday, April 25,

Dear Diary,

The kids in the clique talked to me today - what's a matter now? My new jacket is just like Sue's & Pat McCurley has one like it in yellow. Sue & I walked Sandy Mosca to 5 & 10. I was 10 mins late for work. I dislike Dennis Staires ... Patty & I dashed to the Sq to look at shoes - but didn't see any. Stopped at Mary Power's - she's put out cause no one called her during vacation. P & I went to Mary Flynn's - gave her money for Canada - & Kings - I have everything for the prom now 'cept shoes & nylons. Sue, Paul, Bobby, & Mikey were here when we returned. They stayed a while. Mum likes Bobby. She was talking to Mrs Cook about kids, gowns, & Bobby. She's taking up the gown. It's 12:40 now - just finished my homework.   Nite"

Wednesday, April 26

Dear Diary,

May Bob gave us the 3rd degree today. Told anyone in my room who was going to the prom to stay after. Had to write down our & our date's names, how old he was, where he went to school, if we were going out afterwards, what our dresses were like, etc. The dope! Sue, Martha Melican, & I got stuck talking to her for 10 mins longer cause we locked up. Went to Teddy's & Wat Shoe Store for shoes. Had a coke in Butlers - called Perkins - Mrs C told me not to go in. Dad took me to Belmont - got a pair of white shoes for $5. Went to dancing school - met Moe on the way - talked 15 mins. Someone had rented the hall so we didn't have lessons. Talked to Lee, went to Star Market, & came home. (Joan & Di came to see my gown.). Mary Beth M gave me a cape. All day long I've had a dull toothache - but it's really bad now. Going to the dentist tomorrow.  Bye"

"Thursday, April 27

Dear Diary,

What a nite - I was up & down at 1 & 4 for pain killing pills. Didn't go to school. Made an appointment with Dr Dinjian for 11:30. I had an abscess tooth! Made an appointment with Dr Fox for 3:30 to have it extracted. Those last 2 hrs were hell! Plain & simple hell!! I was given pentathol (by needle in my arm) - the doctor said you'll feel sleepy in 1/2 min - I smiled at him & that's the last I remember. When I came to, I was lying down in another room - Mum was there. Everything seemed very distant - I was terribly groggy but I liked the sensation - staggered all over the place. I was still dizzy at 5. Sue bought the ticket for me - sent her the money via Patty. Peggie & Ann stopped by. Mum's still taking the dress up. Sue Munhall wants to double with Bobby & me. Oh brother!!  Nite"

"Friday, April 28, 1967           P - Day

Dear Diary,

 

Well, today was the day. Stayed home from school. Because of my tooth I couldn't have any hair done so I did it myself. Even tho I started at 5:30 - I was 10 mins late - he gave me yellow orchids. Went to Cook's - got Sue, Bobby C, & Paul - headed for Grappe's - then Birdie's - Bobby & I then went to Sue Munhall's (she went with Paul Landry). The dance was pretty good - no one could leave till 11 tho. We all went to 'The Ship' in Lynnfield. It's lovely there. Had fried chicken. We dropped Sue & Paul off - then the car wouldn't start.. Called Paul G & Mikey. Got it started, took Paul Landry home & then went to Cook's. Stayed about an hour. Then he brought me home - Mum was up. Kissed him good-nite but didn't feel anything ... HAD A GREAT TIME"

MEM & Bobby Harrington

There were yellow orchids on this wristlet that Bobby gave me. It didn't dawn on me at the time, but I hardly knew this kid and he paid for the tuxedo, the wristlet plus dinner at "The Ship!" Nice guy!

"Saturday, April 29

Dear Diary,

Got up at 8:30 - took my time getting ready for work. Dad gave me a ride down - someone different was there today - he had come once before. Money was missing from the envelopes - second time it happened. Went to McClennens after work, but Patty was already there. Took Margy out when she woke up. Met Navin. Went to Stineharts for 2 mins. Took Margy home  - Mary stayed until 5:30 - told her about the prom & how I felt towards Bobby. I hope he doesn't tell Sue he had a miserable time - 'cause she'll hate me. Birdie told Patty she thought I had a miserable time. I didn't really. At the prom it was dull - but afterwards it was great.    See ya"

Sunday, April 30, 1967        62 days till Falmouth

Dear Diary,

Slept till 1:30 - had chicken for dinner - wasn't at all hungry. Went to Navins about 3:30. They were all going to Fr Tom's Anniversary Mass. Stayed about an hour with Mary (she was waiting for her grandmother). Patty & I went to the 5:30 Mass. Stopped at Fantasia's. Jack was in a good mood so we kidded around with him - telling us about the Greek Orthodox Easter Sunday - today. Liz, Marie, Moe, & Mary (?) don't like him cause he kicked them out once for making too much noise - quaint. I think he's a good kid. Went to Navins to get Jay's books - for homework. Called Sue but there was no answer. I really hope she's not mad at me - she shouldn't be unless Bob Harrington said anything - I hope not.   Bye"

The April edition of The Shamrock has an article about the Senior Play  - "The Curious Savage" that I had gone to with Mary Navin.

The next article was about Sr Mary Robert (May Bob) - the high school principal - and Sr Mary Andrew, my 8th grade teacher, celebrating their Golden Jubilees as Dominican nuns.

"Seniors Go Semi-Formal

Plans are underway for a semi-formal Dance to be held on April 28. The dance, sponsored by the Seniors. is open only to Juniors and Seniors. A buffet supper is being planned as a prelude to the dance. 

Already the various chairmen of the dance committees have been chosen. Although no immediate plans such as theme, band, or decorations have been prepared, the date has been decided.

This is the first dance of its kind for many years at SPH, and if it is successful, there is hope of its becoming a tradition once again at St Pat's."

I didn't remember that this prom was the first one in years. I wonder why they were stopped?

The article on the upper left is about Vietnam - we used to talked about the war in The World Affairs Club.

"World Opinion Errs?

Recently a great cry has gone up because in addition to the bombing, the US has begun an artillery & naval bombardment of North Vietnam. More claims are made about 'imperialistic aggression' and escalation, but not a word is spoken about the fact that the North has for some time actually been invading the South. Why doesn't world opinion say something about this? Is it right and just for a country to wage war on another country because it wants to control this country? It is not! Furthermore it is in direct and flagrant opposition to the Geneva Convention of which Ho Chi Minh's regime is a signatory.

How can Ho's government raise such an issue about civilian deaths in the North? 'War is hell' and isn't Ho aware of the civilian deaths caused by his troops and VC, who are now commanded by North Vietnamese cadres? He most certainly is because he has complete control over all the communist troops in the South.

When will this stop? When will the world realize what a fraud Ho is? When will they realize that peace on Ho's terms will mean the loss of South Vietnam and eventually all of Southeast Asia. If we agree to stop bombing we're in tough shape. Look what happened over the Tet truce. Millions of tons of supplies were poured into the Communist troops and fighting broke out with renewed violence.

People must realize that victory in Vietnam must be compete not just to keep Vietnam free, but to keep the entire world free and living. 

                    John Barrett"

This was the view we were hearing at school, on TV, in the newspapers - so I wondered it is was the correct view even though I disliked any kind of violence.

"The Evolution of an Idea

The famous line of John F Kennedy 'Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country,' which was part of President Kennedy's inaugural address, is from a long line of thought dating back to 1945. Although this is the first time Kennedy used these exact words, thoughts of this kind had been stationed in the back of his mind. In 1960 accepting the Democratic nomination, he said 'It (the New Frontier) sums up not what I intend to offer the American people but what I intend to ask of them.' Later at Cadillac Square in Detroit  Kennedy said, 'The new frontier is what I ask you to do for our country."

Although this was undisputedly Kennedy's own line, it had its analogues in history. The Mayor of Haverhill, says Gilbert Seldes, in speaking at the funeral of John Greenleaf Whittier remarked: 'Here may we be reminded that man is most honored, not by that which a city may do for him, but  by what he has done for the city.' (See Van-Wyck Brook's New England: Indian Summer.) Chief Justice Oliver Wendall Holmes in a Memorial Day Address delivered in 1884 spoke: 'It is now the moment when by common consent we pause to become conscious of our national life and to rejoice in it, to recall what our country has done for each of us, and to ask ourselves what we can do for our country in return.'

Although many have used, to a certain degree, the words of Kennedy or rather Kennedy used to a certain degree the words of others, these words are credited to Kennedy as is his due. After a long time of thinking and perfecting his innermost thoughts, he climaxed his thoughts with his famous words. These words will live on long after him.                            Marcia Femia"

In the Honor Roll article, Mary Navin, Freshman class, made First Honors. I made Second Honors in the Junior class. Joanie Huliston made Second Honors in the Freshman class. 

In the listing of The Shamrock, Jay Navin is listed as assistant editor for Page One. 

On page 4 there was an article about Fr Breslin.

"Fr Breslin Needs Your Help

In 1957 Charles Breslin graduated from our school, Saint Patrick High. Last year he returned here to visit us as a newly ordained Dominican priest. Father Breslin, in his sincere desire to help Christ in his poor, is soon going to work in Chimbate, Peru. Most of us at SPH already know that this is where small Pedro lives.

So now it is obvious that HELPING FR BRESLIN IS HELPING SMALL PEDRO. 

Let's do all we can for Father."

The last article on the page is about the Junior dance.

"Juniors Go Irish

On March 17, the class of 1968 sponsored the Third Annual Ring Dance in the Parish Hall. The many guests enjoyed the festive atmosphere of the dance since it was held on St Patrick's Day. The decorations consisted of Green and Gold streamers with Shamrocks and emblems accenting the walls, topped off by a huge ring. The decorations were extremely effective since this was the first major social event at SPH to be held in the newly decorated hall.

This dance was the third of its kind at SPH. The first was sponsored by the class of 1966 and was made a permanent tradition by the class of 1967."

This was the dance that I had bought the decorations for and collected tickets at the door.

1967 - March - So many cokes, brownies, ice cream cones, and hot chocolate!!

 "Wednesday, March 1, 1967                    121 days till Falmouth

Dear Diary,

Had Chemistry Lab today ... Sue & I had cokes in Butlers (only $.10 there; $.15 everywhere else.) Walked home with Ellen Stinehart. Did some homework. Went to Mass & had supper at Hully's. So far I've received Communion every time I've gone to Mass this Lent - very good. Went to dancing school. Going to Canada the 9, 10, & 11 of June. Don't get out of school until the 16. Nifty, eh? ... Went to Navin's. Asked Jay if he wanted to go - said yeah - so he just might. Now, if only Pete would come - Joanie likes him too. (There's George, Mike, Steve, Mike, etc besides.) It's now 11:50. I have to go over Latin - so farewell.  Good-nite"

"Thursday, March 2, 1967       120 days til Fal(mouth)

Dear Diary,

Had a sodality meeting this am. If we have a retreat, it will cost $15. Not much doing at school. Navin, Lois, Maureen Menton ... & Mary Shutt got mucked by May Bob for being late - they really weren't. She called their parents & forbid them to walk to school together. She's a bitch anyhow. Susan had nosebleeds all day so she went straight home. Patty, Lee, & I went to Mass. Joanie & Diane joined us. The 'younger' three laughed & fooled the whole time. There's a kid in Church every day - he's my 'boy-friend,' Had hot chocolate in Fantasia's. Bought a Piggy Bank. Mo called. Bye"

"Friday, March 3, 1967

Dear Diary,

The Freshman can't go to gym for the rest of the year. They had test papers handed back & began to fool. Grant sent them back to school. Clarisse told May Bob, & she mucked them. I ruined my back at gym. Susan & I were duped into staying after - had to clean the room. Had a World Affairs Club meeting during 7th period - Fr Cronin came. It was pretty good. Sue & I had cokes in Butler's. Went to the 5:30 Mass with Dad, Ma, & Joanie. Babysat for the Strongs at 7:30. Got home at 8:30. Moe called - Lee asked her out! She said no - she was babysitting. Imagine that. I'm jealous! I want to go to WHS. Pete, Johnny, & Jay arrived about 10:30. Still here - playing pool. Cheerio!"

"Saturday, March 4, 1967

Dear Diary,

Got to work at 9:20. Sandy was there. I wish sort of that Richard had come. Linda came 10 mins later. She doesn't know if she's getting the job yet. At 1:45 I spotted Susan & ___ (home from Met State for the weekend), & told them to come over. They waited for me, we came home, I changed, & then we went bowling ...  ___ left at 4 & Sue & I walked around the Sq. Went in & out of the 5 & 10 at least 6 or 7 times. Fooled with John. Got home at 5:45. Went babysitting at 7:15. Talked to Moe for an hour and 15 mins. The Strongs didn't pay me. Went to the Dickies at 11 & relieved Patty. 'A Taste of Honey' was great. Bye- y."

"Sunday, March 5, 1967

Dear Diary,

Hello! Not a very exciting day, this one. Went to the 11:45 Mass with Dad, Jimmy, & Johnny. Saw 'David' afterwards. After dinner Mary, Joanie, & I went to Waltham. Met Margie Navin & her friend Louise. We walked along the streets & watched the parade ... we left at 4:30 so Joanie could go babysitting at 5 ... Bye, Luv"

"Monday, March 6, 1967

Dear Diary,

Did my chemistry (homework) during the lunch period. I thought I had forgotten a paper so I didn't do it, but found it when I opened the book at school. I almost saw Paul (Sue's boyfriend) today - he went by in the truck. She had to go right home, so I went to the dentist's with Navin. Afterwards we went to the 5 & 10. Saw Ronnie (having a sundae). We had cokes - I sat one seat away from him - exchanged a few words. Had to take care of the kids & get supper because Mum was at the polls. Only half a day of school tomorrow so I had most of my homework done. Watched the 'Monkees' - Mickey (he's the greatest!) starred. Iron Horse was good. Started essay about 9:30. Sue & Joanie both called. Nite-Nite"

"Tuesday, March 7, 1967

Dear Diary,

It was glorious! No school! Had a snowstorm - 8-14 inches. Only trouble was I had to shovel all day. About 12 Jody tripped (wearing Mum's boots), cut her head on a rocking chair, & had to go to the hosp. Got 3 stitches. Patty & I shoveled our driveway. Watched '77 Sunset Strip.' Shoveled some of Greens. Patty & I went to Mass. Stopped & had hot chocolate at Fantasia's. That kid came in & sat beside Patty (I was on an end). He's ugly! Talked with Jack & John Short. Went to Navins after shoveling the Greens. Passed Pete & Jay. I'm playing it cool with Pete now. Mary & I played chess. It was my 2nd complete game & I got her in a stalemate(?) - it was a tie. A show about Homos was on. Watched half of it. Nite"

"Homos' is a term I would never ever use today - too insensitive or crude or homophobic I guess - I'm cringing as I read it. I even wonder if I knew what it meant back in 1967! We didn't know much about sex then even though we let on we did.

"Wednesday, March 8, 1967

Dear Diary,

Had an English exam this am - terribly hard. I gave up on the essay. Got out of school at 12. Guess what? Mon. Houlihan had wall-to-wall carpeting installed in the corridors - Idiotic, no? Sue, Marie, & I went to the Sq. After shopping about, we had cokes in Butlers ... I went to the 5:30 Mass with Joanie, Diane, & Hannie. Patty's 'boyfriend' was there. Had supper at Hully's. Pete just might come to Canada. His mother would like him to go. I'll know tomorrow. Saw Lee & Jack ... Lost Patty's gloves - She hates me. Joanie & I had a big conversation on Dennis Staires. Nite"

"Thursday, March 9, 1967

Dear Diary,

I get up later 'n later these ams. Today I got up at 8. Walked to school. (Dad usually drives us because of Jimmy & his tonsils). Nothing exciting at school. Sandie Mosca & I went to Flo & asked if we had to have read Pompey for tomorrow - said no. I hope she means it - I haven't started it. Sue & I had cokes in Butlers. She said Birdie might ask John to go to the dance & if he goes with her, they're doubling with  Sue & Paul. I wish I knew someone decent to ask - but I don't. So! Mum almost killed Patty & me for the mess our room was in. Was she pissed off! Wow! Dad got into the act too. I didn't go to Mass. Went babysitting at the McLoughlin's. Got home about 11:30. Got $3. I feel sorry for the kid - he's at school almost 9 hrs a day. Cheerio."

I wonder if this was the day that Mum went up to the attic and threw everything from our room down the attic stairs and then made us go clean up our bedroom and the stairs!

"Friday, March 10

Dear Diary,

Had gym fourth period. Played basketball  - as usual. Sue & I dashed out of school at 3:10. Paul was supposed to pick her up, but he didn't come. After waiting 5 mins, we headed for the square. He finally came down near the bank - he's not as bad as she makes him out. Walked home with Martha - she never shut up! Patty & I went to Mass. Had hot chocolate in Fantasia's - saw Jack, Black Jack, John Short, & Lee. Jack was upset cause Karen gave him back his ring. Went ice skating with Joan, Diane, & Barbara Malone. 2 or 3 neat boys - one scuzzy, one followed Diane & me around. The guard was cute. Got home at 10:20. Norman picked us up. Watched 'Laredo.' Fooled around with Patty. I kinda hope Richard is at work 'morrow. Bye-y"

"Sat March 11

Went to work, got sick. Paul McC gave ride home.

(Written by MPVN - instruction given by Mary Ellen"

Sunday, March 12

Dear Diary,

Slept till 11:30. Had roast beef - New England Style for dinner. Terrific. Read the paper & watched tv. Moe called about 4. Had been talking about 5 mins when Liz & Marie arrived at her house. They came down & Liz took us for a ride around Watertown. Stopped for pizza about 4:50 - left at 5:10. When I got home, there was no one here. Changed my clothes and dashed to Mass. Arrived at the end of the Creed. Didn't give a damn. Diane & John came up. Di & I went to Frank's - Panessi was there. Watched 'The Haunting' - terrific - with Julie Harris & Russ Tamblyn. Patty scared me as I was coming downstairs. Horrifying. Nite"

Monday, March 13, 1967

Dear Diary,

Nothing new, as usual, at school except that we're not having a retreat next week - 'cause of Mary ___, etc & what happened last year. She really left her mark. Moe's not going to the dance - Mother won't let her. Susan's dropping Paul - after Friday, of course. He's not too bad. We had a coke & brownies in Butler's. Talked on a corner for a while. I went to Mass with Joanie & Diane. We went to drugstore. Joanie told Lee my nickname was 'Mimi.' I could have killed her. Watched 'Monkees' - Mickey is great, Iron Horse - Dave - Wow!, Rat Patrol - okay, Felony Squad - so-so. Washed my hair. Talked to Buffy. Bye."

"Tuesday, March 14, 1967

Dear Diary,

Had a film on the African Missions during religion. It was quite good - all Junior & Senior girls saw it. Received our class rings at French. Mine is size 7 - at first I couldn't get it on, then I couldn't get it off. It fits my left hand so I'm keeping it. Marie, Sue, & I traipsed through the Sq today. Had cokes in 5 & 10 - Sandra Mosca works there now. We even went to Jack's Smoke Shop - the den of sin! Saw Mrs McC on the way home. Patty & I stopped in again, after walking Joanie to McManus' where we had cones. Margy can stand up & talk a little. Hafta babysit Thurs till 7:30 at which time Patty will come till 10:30. I went babysitting to the Gebhardt's. Mary Power called & we talked 3/4 of an hour. Got home at 11:45 & they didn't pay me. Said they'd come tomorrow.  Cheerio, Pip Pip."

"Individual Order (Please write firmly - Do Not Detach Yellow Sheet)

I hereby order a medium ring

Price $24        Class Year 1968

Individual Initials (Print)  MEM        Finger Size 7

Name    Mary Ellen Manning

Street  59 Marshall St

Town  Watertown      State  Mass      Zip  02172

Name of School     St Patrick High

Town    Watertown            State  Mass

J Richard Neil Co, Inc

                                'Your Class Jeweler                   $5.00

                                282 Franklin St                  Rec'd

Cambridge, Mass 02139"

I presume we received our rings today in the Ring Ceremony - there's no date on the Souvenir card I have. 

"Souvenir

Of Our Ring Ceremony

O God, by Whose word all things are sanctified, pour forth Thy blessing upon this ring, and grant that we who wear this symbol of fidelity to our school, may always remember that its emblem is the reminder of our intense love of You, so that through the practice of virtue we may have the courage to beat the crosses of life, having ever on our lips the words, 'The will of God is always beautiful.' Having lived the lives of valiant Catholics, may we one day wear the crown of eternal life in the company of Our Lady, Queen of the angels and the saints, and of the entire heavenly court, through Christ Our Lord. Amen"

I still have that ring after almost 60 years! How can I be so old!

"Wednesday, March 15, 1967

Dear Diary,

Had Chem Lab today - it was terrible! No one knew what to do. Didn't get out of there until 3:30. Then Sue & I had to clean the room! It wasn't even my week! Flo asked me if I wanted a job in the Library of Perkins Institute - I said sure. I was suppose to go up today but there was a bad snowstorm so I didn't. There was no dancing. Mary & I hiked to Fantasia's to get 'some monthly needs.' Met Joanie & Diane. Talked with Lee (who calls me 'Mimi'), Black Jack, Bev, Frank, & Dennis. Mary & I stopped at McManus' for hot chocolate. After a guy took the order, a blond kid came over, winked at me, & asked if he could help me. I looked at the other one, & blondy said 'I guess you've already been taken care of. Too bad, isn't it?' I said yeah. He laughed. Stayed at Navins till 9. Good-nite"

I can't believe all the cokes, brownies, ice cream cones and hot chocolates that I indulged in! No wonder I was worried about my weight! Never mind my teeth!

"Thursday, March 16

Hi O Dear Diary,

No school because of a snowstorm. Slept till 10:30, Mo called - the stinker. Shoveled. About 1, Patty, Diane, Mary Fitz and I went to Perkins. The woman I had to see didn't come in. I filled out an application & have to return tomorrow at 2. Met Sue Cook & her little brother, Chris, in 5 & 10. Saw Birdie - had her ears pierced. Got new shoes for the dance - trouble is their white. Went babysitting at 6. Patty came about 6:30. Mary Power arrived about 7:50. We went to WHS' 'Once in a Lifetime.' It was pretty good. Two really neat kids in it. Chris Whalen - the star & Pat King - he's nifty - Moe, the ass, turned down a date with him. Saw Lee & Eddie Staires. Had a good time - sat with Martha Melican & Ellen Operacz. Got home at 11. It's now 11:35.  Cheerio, Pip pip & that rot."

"Friday, March 17, 1967

Happy St Patrick's Day Diary,

What a day! Got up at 10:30. Went to the hall to decorate. Hardly anyone showed up. Spent the morning cutting out decorations (which I had brought there.) Went to Perkins. I guess I got the job. I'll work 5 days a week from 3:30 to 5. While buying nylons & thermal 'petti' pants in Gorins, I met Navin. Helped her pick out a dress. We went to 5 & 10 - saw Buffy, back to Hully's, down to the drugstore - talked to Lee & home. Started getting ready for the dance. About 8:20 I was finally ready. Paul Navin drove us down. I collected tickets for a while - 1/2 the kids were from WHS. John Scuse asked me to dance, & I did. Then he wouldn't let me alone - I kept hiding from him. The dance was okay. Got home about 11:30. (Mary & I walked).   Nite"

"Saturday, March 18

Dear Diary,

Paul arrived at 9:45 - a 1/2 hr late. He gave us his phone no so we can call him when he is late. He interviewed the Beatles twice! He said they swear like hell & drink a lot. Mary & Moe dropped in & made a scene. Sue came by about 2. We came home, I changed, we went to the Sq, I bought a dress for Joanne, & then we went to her house. I met Bobby Harrington, a nice kid, & her brother & his girlfriend. Got home about 5:30. Talked with Moe - she wants me to fix her up with Lee - like hell I will! I went out with Sue & Paul. Were going to go skating, but the place was closed. Went to 'Howdy's Beef Burger' in Framingham. I'd like to go to the Junior Prom but I'm afraid to ask anyone. Ya know? I wish I knew someone on whom I could rely. Unfortunately - Bye"

"Sunday, March 19, 1967

Dear Diary,

Went to the 11:45 Mass with Mary & Joan. David wasn't there. Bought birthday cards for Ma & Jody. Had to go dancing at 3:30.  I left for the Hulistons carrying two bundles of clothes at 3. Mum asked Dad to give me a ride and he said no - the *#@?!""  Changed clothes at the Hully's. Joan, Diane, Maureen McKenzie, Mike & I went to Kennedy Hosp. Danced for the parents & grandparents of the kids with cerebral palsy. The nurses (a lot of nuns) there are marvelous - it was really moving to see those kids - we sure are lucky. After returning to Hully's at 6, we went to the drugstore - met Patty. Got ice cream cones in McManus' - 20 degrees out. Pete was here when we arrived - so I didn't come up - play it cool. Oh yeah - saw Dennis Staires - didn't talk to him tho - no time.  Bye"

"Annual Memorial Mass of 

Division 14 AOH

March 19, 1967

The Breastplate of St Patrick

Christ defend me today

Against poison, against burning,

Against drowning, against wounding, 

Until there comes to me the full reward of my labor. 

Christ with me,

Christ before me, 

Christ within me, 

Christ beneath me,

Christ above me, 

Christ at my right hand,

Christ at my left hand,

Christ in my breadth,

Christ in my length,

Christ in my height,

Christ in the heart of everyone who thinks of me.

Christ in the mouth of everyone who speaks to me.

Christ in every eye that sees me,

Christ in every ear that hears me."

I suppose this memorial card must have been given out at the 10 o'clock Mass - that was the big, formal Mass with the choir on Sunday - not at the 11:45 Mass. My father must have gone to that since he was in the Hibernians.

"Monday, March 20, 1967

Dear Diary,

Only have school 3 days this week. I start work at Perkins next Monday at $1.30 an hour. Sue & I hung around the Sq until 4. If anyone asks, tell em I went skating with Pat Doherty (?) Saturday nite (he's Sue's friend). Went to Mass with Patty, Joan, & Diane.  Patty & I had hot chocolate in drugstore - saw Sue but didn't talk. Saw Eileen in Fox's - 2 of her kids have strep throat. Watched The Monkees - it was great - Mickey was the best! Rat Patrol was okay, Felony Squad was good - Jim got shot. Sue called during Iron Horse - good. Talked 1/2 hr. I called WRKO to request 'Sometime in the Morning' by Mickey & ended up talking with the kid on the line - his first day on the job - sounded neat.  Bye-y"

"Tuesday, March 21, 1967

Dear Diary,

Sue & I had cokes with Wilma Jones in Butler's. Met Judy Rossi & Birdie Fuschetti, & Wilma went off with them. We walked around the Sq a couple of times. Saw Bulldog. Had an orangeade in the 5 & 10. Ran into Mary Joyce - so Sue walked home with her. Later I went babysitting with Joanie. We dashed madly to Mass - 10 mins late.  Had hot chocolate in the drugstore ... Went to Kings - didn't see any dresses but bought a white hat for $3 and a mantilla. Watched 'Girls from UNCLE.' Then did homework - had to read Pompey - finished about 11:30. G'nite!"

Funny to read that I bought a mantilla - those were the days that you had to be dressed nicely for church - no jeans or shorts or T-shirts - women's heads had to be covered. There were the long lacy mantillas and the small round lacey ones that sat just on the top of your head. How many times did we use a bobby pin to attach an opened Kleenex to our hair when we had no hat? And look at us now - anything goes - everyone is welcome at most churches - no one worries about covering their heads or what they wear. We don't even have to leave home - we can watch the Mass on TV or on computers or phones! In our pajamas!

"Wednesday, March 22, 1967

Dear Diary,

Only 100 days until Falmouth. Have to go to the convent tomorrow at 10 to clean the chapel - nifty, uh? Today was the last day of school for 5 days - it snowed. Walked to Sq with Susan, but we didn't get cokes. Went to Mass with Mary Pat (1st time in Lent that she could go to the 5:30 Mass). Had hot chocolate in drugstore. Talked with Lee for 15 mins. Told him Mo was afraid of him - he just shrugged. Talked awhile with Jack. Ellen Stinehart called - wanted to make sure I was going to Boston with her - I'm not chasing sailors with her.  Susan called - we didn't say much - she's cleaning tomorrow too. Moe called - we're taking Marie out to dinner Sat - $5! Kinda expensive.  Bye-y"

"Thursday, March 23, 1967

Dear Diary,

Got up at 9. Met Susan at 9:45 & we proceeded to 5 stores to find Polish for Rose Patrice. Had to wax & polish the pews in the chapel. Left at 12. Sue & I had cokes in Butler's. Hung around the Sq until 12:40. Ellen Stinehart came down at 12:45 & we went to Mt Auburn to  get Joanie, then we 3 headed to Boston .. We spent 1 1/2 hrs in stores. At 4:30 we went to Mass at Park St Chapel. Had supper in the Saxon Cafeteria. Walked around - left about 6:30. Watched 'Merrill's Marauders' & read a book about Iron Horse. G'nite"

"Friday, March 24, 1967

Dear Diary,

Slept till 11:15. Did dishes. Cleaned my room - it doesn't look it now. Watched 77 Sunset Strip - veddy good. Went to Good Friday Services at 5 pm. Met Martha Melican there - she gave me a ride home. The thing lasted an hour and a half. (5-6:30). At 7:15 I went babysitting to the McClennens. Did some homework. Wrote some of my story. Watched 'Tarzan,' 'Man From UNCLE,' and 'Laredo' - great! Listened to an updated story of the Crucifixion in a reporter's point of view - it's an annual thing - very good. Margy's birthday is tomorrow - she's almost a year old. Got $3. I dread going to work tomorrow - Paul & Lynda might not be there & Richard might.  Bye!"

"Saturday, March 25                    Margy's birthday

Hello there, Di,

It was crummy at work. Fortunately Lynda was there .. Met Mary Pat in the card shop I bought a birthday card for Margy. Couldn't find any white shoe dye - I'll have to wear my new 'flats.' Went to the Square with Patty to buy candy for the 'Easter Bunny.' I bought nylons & a white pocketbook at Maes. It's patent leather - I was going to exchange it for plain white leather but the store was closed. Went to Holy Saturday Services with Joanie & Diane - it was okay. Don't like Fr Barletta - the crumb - stuck on himself. Walked home with Mum & Ann Dickie. Nite"

"Sunday, March 26, 1967

Dear Diary,

Happy Easter! I wore my old purplish suit. Went to 11:45 Mass with Dad, Mom, & Johnny - sat directly in front of David ___. Had ham instead of turkey for dinner - first time in ages. The Hully's came up after dinner. Joan, Mary, Patty, Diane, & I went to Boston. Except for one guy who tried to convert us - esp Mary -, it was tres dull. Got home & went to get a pizza, but every place was closed. Went to Hully's ... Norman drove us home. Joanie stayed over night. Mary couldn't. Joan & I walked down to McManus' (met Jay, Johnny, & Pete) but it was closed. Got home about 10:45. Oh, Chris is home. Good nite"

"Monday, March 27

Dear Diary,

Since there was no school (Easter Mon) I stayed in bed till 11:15. Joanie went candy striping at 11. Bought a DC 5 Album (Dave Clark 5) & a single. Went to Hully's, then Diane, Patty, & I went to dancing school. Hafta dance Sunday. Got back to Hully's at 2:45. Played album & changed my clothes. At 3:15 I dashed to the Perkins. Mrs Castle was showing me around when someone came up behind me. I turned around and guess who it was? - Dennis Staires. I almost flipped! Talked with him every now & then. His mother picked us up, & we picked up Eddie, & we 4 picked up 2 more. I was sitting twix Dennis & (sigh) Eddie. Joanie took it very calmly - the cad, (I think Dennis still likes her.) Watched tv & did homework. Rat Patrol was good. Monkees I like. DC5 I love.  Nite"

"Tuesday, March 28 1967

Dear Diary,

Only 94 days left till we go to Falmouth. Couldn't sleep last nite - was awake till after 1:30. Nothing new at school. Sue got a fish hook caught in her leg last Sat. Bobby Harrington was asking for me, she said. All day long I was thinking about work, Eddie, & Dennis - so what happens? He doesn't show up, of course. Called and said he had an earache. Time passes so fast there. I walked home with Joe - he lives on Prescott St ... Went to Kings with Mary Power - gave her her chances. She bought a dress - we had an ice cream cone, & walked home. Got home about 8:20. Did homework, listened to the radio & records. Pray that Dennis is at Perkins tomorrow - it's tres, tres dull without him popping up here & there. Bless ya"

Wednesday, March 29, 1967

Dear Diary,

Only 93 days till Falmouth. Some kids got out early to go to a 'tea' at Rosary (3-5). I didn't because of work. Had a coke with Sue because I had told Mrs Castle that I'd be late. Thankfully Dennis was there today. Had a blast. We were up in the non-fiction stacks - alone - together. He put most of the books away because I can't reach the top shelves. He calls me 'ugly' & 'pint-size.' I have to think up a good name for '4 eyes.' He snatched my ring while I was washing my hands - I chased him outside. I don't think Mrs Castle approves of our tom-foolery. Mrs Staires drove me home - no Eddie. After supper Patty & I went to Navins', Mary & we went to Parker Drug & Frank's. Did homework - not through yet.  Nite"

One of my jobs at Perkins was to put away the Braille books or package them up to be delivered to people's homes. They were large heavy books - I used to run my fingers over the raised Braille text and wonder if the kids' fingers ever bled from tracing the raised dots.

"Thursday, March 30,

Dear Diary,

Only 92 days till F(almouth) day. Rose Patrice told Lizzie that she expects Lizzie, Marie, & me to become nuns - Ho Ho Ha Ha He He! Dashed to work - only 3 mins late. Dennis was there. Ditto Joe. Dennis introduced me to a kid named Colin, an artist. Wanted me to pose. Dennis wanted to go to the upstairs stacks with me - but I didn't go. Had to put the XA fiction in order. He hid my schoolbag in the cellar - dark & spooky. I went down to get it & he pulled it up in the dumbwaiter. I shrugged & he let it down as I was coming up, but HE went down after it. He's a good kid despite what Joan & Mary say. Mrs Staires drove me home. Did homework & listened to the records & radio. I just might get paid tomorrow.  Bye"

Perkins had a series of underground tunnels throughout the property - could they have been from WWII or the Cold War? I don't remember. Anyway I think the basement stacks hooked up to the tunnels. I hated going down there. Sometimes one of the blind students would purposely shut off the lights when I was down there and start making noises in the dark to scare me - which they did! After working there, I lost a lot of my compassion for the blind. 

"Friday, March 31

Dear Diary,         (4 /1/67)

Not much new at school. Liz, Marie, Birdie, & I plan to go out tomorrow nite. Dashed off to the Perkins as usual. I don't get paid until next week - and then it might be for just 1 week. Dennis wants to get on friendlier terms - like when we went to Nantasket - that'll be fun! (SARCASM). Can't trust him. I still like Eddie & Ronnie better. Dr Kildare is on at 5 these days. When Mrs Staires drives me home I can see 3/4 of it. Went babysitting about 8 at Eileen's. The kids, as usual, were terrible. Got home about 1. Stayed up till 3:30 watching 'Down to the Sea With Ships.' Nite"

Mike Connolly was a young Irishman from Ballyconneelly in Connemara. His father was from there, but his mother was an American who moved to Ireland when she got married. So Mike was an American citizen through his mother. He moved to Watertown and married our neighbor on Marion Road Trudy Murphy - her mother was the organist at St Pat's. Mike's younger brother Paul Connolly also moved out here, and he married Rosemary Murphy - Trudy's younger sister. 

Mike had an horrific accident at B F Goodrich in East Watertown in November 1966 - he lost both hands. He was a great accordion player - after the accident he went on to play the harmonica/mouth organ and continued his band - The Celtic Aires. My father was profoundly affected by this tragedy and organized a benefit for Mike at the Hibernians.

"Watertown Division 14

Ancient Order of Hibernians

                                                                151 Watertown Street

                                                                 Watertown, Mass.

My Dear Friend:

                We extend to you, and to every member of Division 14,

a sincere invitation to attend a Social-Reception to .....

Mike Connolly

8 pm

Friday                    March 31

Hibernian Hall

                To the members of Division 14 and his friends everywhere, who knew of the talents of this young man, his unfortunate accident early this winter was a stunning blow. The resultant surgery was a shock.

                The Mike Connolly Night Social will not be an expression of our sympathy but will instead be an expression of our deep admiration of his courage.

                Your attendance will be an expression of loyalty to a brother member and will bolster Mike's wonderful spirit in his noble effort to overcome his handicap.

                All who attend this Social on Friday, March 31st will leave with a sincere feeling that they have witnessed a true 'Profile in Courage.'

                                                        Fraternally for the Committee

                                                        John Manning

                                                        Chairman

PS Chance books for those who desire them are still available ..... contact John Manning at WA4 -9143."

When I was older, I remember Mike with his brother Paul and his band the Celtic-Aires playing at the Hiboes, Colcannons - was that in Dedham? - at Henry Varian's pub in Brookline maybe? I had an album that they made but I think I threw it out when I sold my house because I couldn't play it with all the scratches on it. Below is a snapshot of the album from the website - https://www.discogs.com/release/8202752-Mike-Connollys-Celticaires-What-A-Country?srsltid=AfmBOopvp_sqopSUIO7sgO5GQlC-z1U11fkTrs-PDkcguizg1jCT5ltv