Wednesday, August 6, 2025

1967 - June: more bad moods, more Cokes, teenage tragedy


I didn't realize until I reread this article in the June Shamrock that Sr Marie de Montfort had been at St Pat's for over 10 years. She was one of the younger nuns - she also flirted with the boys, let a strand of hair slip out from her head veil. She seemed "with it." I had her in 5th and 7th grades. We heard that she eventually left the convent and married.

"Sister Marie deMontfort Departs From SPH
    Sr Marie deMontfort, OP, who has been a teacher at St Patrick School since September, 1955 has been notified of her promotion to the head of the department of Chemistry at Siena College at Memphis, Tennessee. 
    From previous years of teaching and correlating, students have learned from Sister varied subjects such as geometry, Chemistry, algebra, trigonometry, and quotations of St Paul. Her abounding vocabulary and versatile personality has aroused interest and enthusiasm in many a student. Sister teaches religion in her home room, a course which includes discussions from the indulging matters of the Church to the opinions of Brother Antonius.
    The entire student body appreciates the friendship, enthusiasm and knowledge that she has radiated throughout the years."

The article in the middle of the first page, "Students Score High," is about the National Educational Development Tests which the sophomore and freshmen classes took in March. Among those who ranked in the top ten percentile in the nation were my brother - sophomore John Manning, and my freshman cousins Mary Navin and Judith Whitingham. 

The bottom right article - "Step Forward To Glory" - is about the National Honor Society.

    "On May 24th the cream of St Patrick's crop came into the spotlight as the school's chapter of the National Honor Society inducted new members into the organization. 
    Senior William Sullivan a member of the society, presided over the ceremony in which eight junior girls became provisional members, and seven seniors were accepted as permanent members. The senior members of the society presented its organization and history. The permanent members, William Sullivan, Nancy Roth, Albert Smith, Maureen Maloney, Lawrence Tiberio, Donna Russo, and John Fantasia, conducted the lightning of the candles and the administration of the pledge. Taking the pledge and reception into the National Honor Society were: Mary Manning, Elizabeth Craig, Donna Calden, Kathleen Brown, Sandra Murphy, Claire Milmore, Martha Melican, and Sandra Mosca.
    Sr Mary Robert spoke to the assembly and congratulated the new members, after which she presented the permanent members with certificates and membership pins.
    Following an acceptance speech by Mary Ellen Manning, Monsignor Houlihan and Fr Mel Markowski, OP, addressed the students concerning the qualities which the society requires: Scholarship, Character, Leadership, and Service."



"Hot Dogs, Cakes, Raffles
    For the past month, students of St Patrick have been diligently working to raise money for Fr Breslin's South American missions. As the result of this diligence, St Patrick will donate a still undetermined amount to Fr Breslin. This could not have been accomplished without the united cooperation of the entire student body. Although individual classes sponsored fund-raising projects, the success of the drive depended upon the participation of all classes.
    Juliette Hovespian, Judith Whittingham, and Maureen Menton won the Nine-B fudge raffle. Nine-A provided box lunches and a brownie sale. 
    Ten-A also held a box lunch, which was supplemented by an inter-class cake sale. One noontime, Ten-B sold cookies, brownies, and other desserts to hungry SPH'ers, later raffling off five cakes. The winners were Carol Sabatino, Harold Craig, Raymond Forte, Maria Miranda, and Carol McNamara. 
    All classes participated enthusiastically in Eleven-A sponsored Hot Dog Day. St Pat's is grateful to Mrs Calden, Mrs Fuschetti, and Mrs Mosca, who assisted the Eleven-A girls in this project. Frances Joyce is five dollars richer after having won the Eleven-B raffle, in which 238 chances were sold.
    Twelve-A raffled the flowers used as decorations on class night to members of that class. Also, brownies and cookies were sold by the class. Twelve-B donated by means of daily collections. Candy is sold at lunch period to help raise money for such a worthy cause. 
    All students are to be commended for their effort and participation, but also for their cooperation with each class's individual projects. Only with this spirit of unity could the drive succeed. 
    The total amount donated will be published later."


"Small Schools Inferior
    "The general public has a tendency to regard small schools such as St Patrick as lacking in academic standing. Our records will show the contrary. In proportion to large high schools, the students of St Patrick have won many more scholarships. Fifteen percent of the class of 1967 won scholarships to major universities and colleges, totaling more than $18,000. 
    St Patrick upstages many high schools with greater enrollments in the number of its science and math fair winners. This year St Pat's has one winner in a major science fair. Last year saw seven take honors at various fairs. 
    Also the number of commended students on national tests, proportionately, far exceeds that of high enrollment high schools. Finally the academic standing of a high school is exhibited by the number of its graduates continuing in higher education. Every year, the great majority of the graduating class goes on to college.
    It would be an injustice to think more benefits are available to students attending large high schools. Small high schools, with a fraction of the enrollment, offer a student every advancement. It is his if he proves himself worthy of it. All that is required is concentrated and continuous effort."


With the Seniors having graduated, my cousin John Navin became editor of The Shamrock. 







"Thursday, June 1

Dear Diary,

Forget Emmie's tv guide - Sue'll kill me - I don't give a damn. Having a chem exam next Mon afternoon, Latin - Wed, Algebra - Thurs, & probably an English, Fr, & Rel. Can't wait for June 16! Went straight to work - walked to Sq with Sandy Mosca & Sue Munhall - (May Bob wants us to sponsor another Hot Dog Day next Tues.) Got to work about 3:40. Got a ride home from Staires. Went babysitting at Gebhardt's at 7:30. Did homework, gave 'em a bath, watched Doug McClure on Joey Bishop. Got home about 1:15. Got $2.75. It's now 1:40.  Nite"


"Friday, June 2

Dear Diary,

Only 14 days till school ends! It's very dull except Chem. I was in a bad mood most of the day. Cook drove me crazy - avoided her at lunch time. Had our regular at Butler's. She dashed out to walk home with Clare McCurley. Got to work about 4. Got a check for $14.61 - I had expected more. Mrs Ouelette never - or hardly ever - speaks to me. I hope Joe quits. Walked home by myself. Mum was P. O. about the room (Pissed Off) - it's not was bad as she says. (Mary) Power called me after supper - talked ~ 15 mins. Going to Canada next week. Feis this Sunday - I doubt I'll beat Joanie - M McKenzie maybe. Well, I'll get one medal anyway.  Bye                                                                       Eddie Staires won a trophy for scholastic achievement."


"Saturday, June 3

Dear Diary,

Paul's friend Pete was at work today. He's cool. Only 40 kids came in - hardly any. Linda's having a cook-out the Sun we're in Canada so I can't go - she invited me. We're not seeing the DC 5, I guess. Couldn't get tickets - I really wanted to see them, too. Patty & I went to Boston - bought  $13 pink trenchcoat in Jordan's Basement. Went to Boston Common - WBZ was there - the Wasp is in - loads of sailors. Met Dom Russo - never said a word to me - said hello - kept bumping into him - half the time it looked like we were following him! Went babysitting at Tilles - Moe's job. It stunk - house was filthy - Dog needed bath - got $2.75. Patty got $5 at my job for Gallaghers!  Nite"


"Sunday, June 4        Happy Birthday to me        

 Dear Diary,                               Crummy birthday, worst ever

Took Christine to 9:15 Mass - sheer hell. Hullys picked me up about 11 (1/2 hr late as usual) to go to the Feis. Got there about 11:30. Won 2 2nd place prizes - reel & hornpipe - against Joanie (2 1sts -  goofed up reel - didn't deserve 1st) & Moe McKenzie 2 3rds. Finished that about 12:30? Had to wait all afternoon & nite to dance against other schools - danced about 9. We stunk in that - ought to teach Mary to give us steps that make us move. Rita O'Shea's & Steve Carney's schools took most of the prizes. Got home about 10. Chris gave me a bottle of fingernail polish; Jody - knee sox; Mum - $5; Ma - $3 - that's all I got! Crude! Joanie didn't brag once about getting 2 1sts. Hannie said I should have got 1 1st but I think she said it to be nice.  Nite"


"Sneakin' in just to remind ya -"



"You've left another year behind you!
Happy Birthday!
Ain't I a little rat?

                                                        Love to Mary E
                                                            From Ma"


I certainly was in a bad mood on my birthday! I haven't celebrated for a long time until this year - 20025 - when my family all got together at Johnny and Vickie's and surprised me. It was actually wonderful to see everyone together on a happy occasion!

I'm a rather even keeled type - pretty laid back, slow to anger, peace at all costs, try to see all sides - I occasionally blow my stack, but get over whatever it is pretty quickly, At least that is how I see myself!


"Monday, June 5

Was exhausted getting up - my sunburn on my shoulders was sore. I hate school! Going to Canada Fri - at last! Had a chemistry exam - I had the answers & didn't know it - got about a 60. Sue, Marie, & I were waiting for D Patrick (at Comm House). Yelled for her but she didn't come. Sue went to CH, & Marie & I just left. I'm getting sick of Cook. Didn't bother me that she might be mad. Got to work about 3:40 - scads of books. Eddie picked us up in Mrs S's car (which is really their uncle's). He smokes again now. After supper Navin & I went to Friendly's. Just finishing when we saw Ronnie & Dottie, Ed & Linda?, & Donnie & ? coming from Nelson's. Looked gorgeous! Nothing on tv 'cept repeats. Monkees & Felony Squad weren't on.  Bye"


"Tuesday, June 6

Dear Diary,

Nothing doing at school - tomorrow's the algebra exam & Monty didn't even teach us anything today. Marie & I went to PO for Flo. Sue didn't say one word to me today - she waited for D Patrick & was off. What to do? What to do? There was a fair at Perkins today - nothing spectacular. Mrs Staires picked us up - brought Eddie's trophy just so I could see it. Tommy - ahem - wet his pants 10 mins before Mrs McL came - so we didn't change him - everyone is sick of the 2 of them. Joanne fell off the roof of the car today onto the tailgate.  Hurt her teeth. Mum went to Beano so I was stuck with her. Didn't do any homework.  Nite"


Wednesday, June 7                24 days till Falmouth

Dear Diary,

Had the algebra exam - so-so. Started at 9:20 - finished 11:20. Missed Religion, French, & Latin. Latin exam tomorrow. Got out of school at 1:30. Cashed my check for $14.61. Went home, changed my clothes, & went babysitting for the Strong's new baby - Barry Scott. He slept the whole time - at 3:30 I brought him down here to Mum so I could go to work. At work I took off my sandals & walked around barefoot. Dennis didn't show up - so I walked home. Went to dancing school. Mary hasn't seen Mon Houlihan yet, went down tonite but he wasn't there. Got home about 8:30. Watched 'The Virginian' - good. Patty & I went to Friendly's. Saw Ron & Dottie. Bye"


"Thursday, June 8

Dear Diary,

Had the Latin exam - got about 7 wrong. Went over it during Latin period. Got out at 1:30. Went to May Bob - Joanie was leaving as I went in. MB thought it was great - no trouble. Sue & I are back on friendly terms - she started. She, Navin, & I had a coke in Butler's, went to 5 & 10, talked with John, & came home. Went to work at 3:20 - they didn't think I'd be in today. Eddie came to pick Dennis up but Dennis wasn't around - I told Eddie & left - he had his small car so I didn't take a ride. Watched tv, cleaned up room, washed my hair, took a shower, shaved me legs, & did homework. Mary called about 7 - real excited about going. Did I tell you Joan had her hair cut? Looks better.   Bye"


"Friday, June 9

Dear Diary,

Got out of school at 11:30. Had a group pix taken for the Shamrock of the National Honor Society. At 12:20 we picked Mary up (Mr B took Pete & Jay) - the bus left at 1:20. Made one stop - bus had a bathroom. Joanie flirted her way into Pete's arms. Sat beside him 3/4 of the way - Jealous or what! When we stopped at the border, Mum gave me my birth certificate -what a shock - Male, White, Single. At first the Male didn't dawn on me - then I was almost hysterical. Arrived at the motel about 8:40. Wasn't too bad except there were no tvs in the rooms & it was in an isolated spot. Power, Joan, Diane, & I walked about a mile for dinner - had pizza. Got back about 11:30. About 1:30 Joan & I went to get cokes - Pete followed & we 3 watched tv in the lobby."


"Saturday, June 10

Dear Diary,

Finally got to sleep about 4:30 - Mary's talking put me to sleep. Got up about 7:30. Had breakfast in restaurant - caught the 8:30 bus for Montreal. Headed for the fair. Visited Canada - good, Australia - had real kangaroos, Great Britain - good, Ceylon, Thailand, Mexico, France, other small countries, & the USA - great. USA was air conditioned, gigantic escalator, 4 boys walked by & pulled my hair.  Mary was a bitch - all she did was complain. Went to the Amusement Park - the fantastic ride there wasn't so fantastic. Went on the Ferris Wheel. Kid tried to pick me up - put his arm around me, stamped his foot (I did likewise), & asked me to go on a ride. I gracefully declined.  Got back to motel about 11:30. Went to Chinese restaurant - stunk. Pete wanted Joan to stay with him but she wouldn't. He walked off. Johnny & Jay were worried about him.  Bye"


"Sunday, June 11

Dear Diary,

Up till about 4. All the lights were off & I was lying on the floor when Power came out of the bathroom. Suspected something - we lambasted her with pillows. Fell on top of me - squish. Got up at 7:45. Went to a French Church in Montreal. Took a tour of the city - cool. Mum & Hannie got lost in the subway & Joan & I had to show 'em the way - didn't believe us but we were right. The bus never showed up. At 5 the driver came & said he had been waiting 2 hrs. Mary killed him. Had to return to the motel & wait for him. Pete was sick on the bus - had a rash & a fever. Jay was making out with Barbara most of the way home - pathetic. Elaine Landry slept on my lap halfway home. Everyone was bus sick. Pat McD was waiting for the bus. Almost cried when I saw him. Got home about 2.  Bye"


"Monday, June 12

Dear Diary,

I could barely get up this am. Had a religion exam. No French exam - tomorrow. No Latin - fell asleep - woke up when my arm slipped off the book. Not much doing - 4 days left. My right eye was still watery today - I hope it is nothing serious. Pete's got the German measles supposedly. He told Johnny that Joanie was a good kid to talk to but that was it. Called Perkins & told them I had a sore eye - told me to stay home. Went to bed - slept till 8 - kept waking up & I didn't know where I was or what time it was. Watched Rat Patrol, Felony Squad, Family Affair (all repeats), & Coronet Blue - great - Frank Converse - fabulous. It's now 11:13. Oh, Ma stopped by for about an hour.  Bye"


"Tuesday, June 13

Dear Diary,

Only 3 days left of school. 18 till Falmouth. Had French exam - kinda hard. Got out at 1:45 cause we just have study in the afternoon. Hafta clean the room after school tomorrow. Had a coke after school with Sue. Joan told me that Pete called her to tell her he had the German measles - she was cold to him. She bugs me - chases & flirts, & when the boy finally pays some attention to her, she freezes. I get tres tongue-tied around boys & act like a fool to cover up my self-consciousness. Janice Connolly likes Johnny - vice versa? He & Pete are self-conscious around girls. Got to work about 2:15. Got a ride home from the Staires. Missed dancing school - first time this year. Bye"



"Wednesday, June 14

Hi Oh Di,

Only 2 days left - 3 cheers! The only class we had today was religion. The rest of the time we read. If I take Typing I next year - I'll have 7 subjects - Religion, English IV, History, Physics, Trig & Latin 4 - last 3 are rather elective. I'd also like to take short hand but (shrug). Stayed after to help clean the room - stayed till 3:30 with Cook, D Patrick, Marie Barbato, & Moe Hughes. Left about 3:30. Cook & I had our usual. Arrived at work about 4. Not much to do. Decided to work Dennis' hours cause I won't be confined to talking books. Got ride home. No homework - seems eery. Counted the money in my 'bunny' bank - $19.02 for Falmouth. Watched 'Virginian' - stupendous - love Don Quinn(?),  Nite"


"Thursday, June 15                            Recital

Dear Diary,

Tomorrow's the last day of school! Had to sit & read books all day today - couldn't clean room till after school - did it during lunch time. Got out at 1:00. Bought Monty a pen & pencil set for $4.50 - a discount - over $10. Got Rose Patrice Jean Nate toilette water. Shaved me legs - tremendous news, & then went to work. Dennis had come this am so I had to walk home. Washed my hair & took a shower. Arrived at Hibernians about 7:30. Recital started about 9:15. Did 5 nos & made a mistake in each one - humiliating. Joe Joyce played & made a production over me name - sang Happy Birthday to me. Pat & Carmel were there. Talked to them about 15 mins before we left. He gave me a ciggie - took 2 puffs of it & gave it back to him. Mary, Lee, Patty, & I walked home.  Bye"



"Recital and Dance
presented by
Pupils Of Mary Flynn
School of Irish Dancing
Thursday evening, June 15, 1967
Hibernian Hall
155 Watertown Street         Watertown
At 8:15 PM                    Donation $1.00"




"June 16            NO MORE SCHOOL!!

Dear Diary!

Thanks be to God! - we've been liberated! Hurray!Got to school about 9. At 9:30 Sandie Mosca & I dashed to Pharmacy to get another present for RP. Gave her Jean Nate soap & toilette water. Monty came in to say goodbye - everyone was crying. Got out at 9:45 but Sue (she didn't hafta go - brought Chris) & I stayed & talked to RP.  Sue left for a min & RP tried to talk me into becoming a nun - no dice. Got home about 12. Dad drove me to work at 12:45. Stayed till 3:15 - got my check $15. Went to dentist - had my teeth cleaned - also had fluoride treatment - yech! Went babysitting for Rita at about 7:45. Mickey Joe is 2 mons - had to feed, burp, & put him to bed. Didn't actually hafta take care of David & Rick. Got home about 11:30 - got $3.  Bye" 


Saturday, June 17

Dear Dairy,

Two weeks from now we'll be sleeping in Falmouth. Sandy was at work today. I was alone - Lynda quit - has a job at American Laundry - next door. Sue met me - hung around the Sq. After she left, met Joan hiding from Dennis Staires. She, Mary, & I went to the Turnstyle. Looked around - bought ice cream cones. Got home about 6:15 after waiting 1/2 hr for the bus. Got a letter from M Jelonek - she's in the Army, & sister Joan got married. Went to the Gish's for Mary. Had a pizza delivered. Got $2.50. Got home about 12:15. Might go to the dogs with Cook or the movies with Marie. Keep thinking I have homework to do. Hope this summer doesn't go as fast as this year went. Hope to see Carl Rourke this year.        Bye"


"Sunday, June 18            Father's Day

Dear Diary,

We all went to the 11:45 Mass. Met Bobby Cook - Sue never called about going to the races. Had turkey in honor of the occasion. Went to see the US Constitution - "Old Ironsides." Not many sailors around - probably because it was raining. Went with the Hullys. Also went to City Point & a cemetery in Waltham - Norman's mother. Joanie & I walked from Green St to Friendly's - I had on a bright yellow rain jacket of Norman's - 40 times too big. Going down Marshall St we put flowers in our hair, took off our shoes, & sang 'Flowers in Their Hair." Went to see 'The Collector' - great & 'Ship of Fools" - great. Both were terrific. Got out at 12 & we went to call a taxi. Victor Rossi & friends came over & waited with us - 2 neat boys with him. Offered us a ride but Moe didn't want one - the dope.   Bye"


"Monday, June 19

Dear Diary,

Got up at 8:05 - regretfully of course. Got to work about 9. Did all sorts of things - it's quite different in the mornings - more people & all. Dennis came in about 10-10:30. Left at 12 - lunch hour. I had to stay till 1. Only 2 people left in the library at that time - one being Mrs McL - saw her son Stephen - cute. Got home about 1:15. Mum went to the doctors for a checkup. Cleaned up room & listened to records. Tommy is going to be here all this week. After supper Patty & I went to Friendly's & Sunnybrook. Saw Joan & Mary heading for Harvard Sq - parents didn't know. Ma broke her wrist - fell off the bus. TV was great tonite from 7:30. Wow! Best nite for tv!        Bye"


"Tuesday, June 20, 1967

Dear Diary,

It was pouring this morning! Wore shorts, blouse, & raincoat. I was drenched when I got to Perkins. One of my shoes needs to be soled - found out the hard way - my foot was soaked. There are repair works going on at Perkins, & I hate the looks they give me when I go by. Good thing it's not dark out - I'd fear for my virtue (hoho). Got home dripping about 1:20. Ate dinner, watched tv, read, & listened to records. Paul drove Mary & I over to King's after supper - there was a sale. We bought the same kind of pajamas - orange; same Jamaica sets - mine green - hers blue; I bought a beach bag & she bought a suit. Showed them to Peggy, Kathy, Nancy, Maureen, & Patty - none of which liked 'em. It does something to your morale, I swear.   Bye"


"Wednesday, June 21

Dear Diary,

It was wet & drizzly again today. Nothing new at work. Got home about 1:20. Took care of Chris & Jody during the afternoon. Johnny took Janice Connolly to Riverside Bowling Alleys. Power called up & asked me to babysit for her Friday morning but I said no cause I want to sleep - Navin's going. Liz, Marie, & Moe treated me to the movies - 'The Girl With the Green Eyes' & 'Triple Cross.' 2 cute boys sat behind Marie & me. Kept digging their knees into our chairs. I had my arm over the back of the chair & kept hitting one's knees - nothing came out of it. Went to Dunkin' Donuts about 12:30 - got home about 1.  Bye"


"Thursday, June 22

Dear Diary,

Last day of work this week - tomorrow I can sleep. Not much doing - haven't seen Dennis since Monday (?) - no great loss. Can't think of anything but Falmouth - can't wait till I get there. Wonder if the Rourkes will be there this year - remember the time Carl wanted to walk me home from Church? I've been kicking myself in the ass ever since for refusing. After supper Mary & I went to a Carnival in the parking lot of King's. Went on the Round-Up - got sick to me stomach - don't worry it wasn't messy. Met the Griffins. Went on Scrambler. Met Joan, Diane, & Janice Connolly. Stayed till 9:45. Went to Friendly's about 10:45. Went to bed at 12:45. Yawn.  Nite"


"Friday, June 23

Dear Diary,

In 9 mins there'll only be a week left before we go to Falmouth! Can hardly wait! Slept till 12:10 when Patty turned the record player on at full blast. Started to write to Mary Jelonek but was rudely interrupted. Watched tv, did dishes, listened to radio, folded clothes, etc. Didn't feel so great today so after supper I just watched tv - Green Hornet - okay - being axed; Twiggy: Why - quaint; Man From Uncle - okay; part of a movie, & Laredo - great - I love that show - especially Joe Riley - Chad Cooper - being axed! SH_T! Patty & I went to Friendly's - saw Ronnie - sigh! - John Wolfe - Herky Hotin & Mark - throb! It's now 1 am. 7 days till Falmouth!  Nite"


"Saturday, June 24

Dear Diary,

Paul picked me up again today. Drastic news - you know Peter? - well, he's in Vietnam - went this past week - Lynda stopped in and told me. Still haven't got a new girl - maybe Mary Pat or Joanie could get it. I prefer Mary Pat - very convenient - besides she needs the money more than Joanie. Got through about 2:15. Was exhausted when I got home. Cleaned room, listened to records, listened to radio, did stairs, vacuumed front hall rug, watched tv - very dull existence. Guarded the house while Mum, Dad, Chris, & Jody went to see Aunt Nellie. Johnny went sailing with Norman. Navins went to the beach, I think - stinkers. Elaine is going to be there July 2.  Nite"


"Sunday, June 25

Dear Diary,

Only 6 days till Falmouth. I can't wait! - how 'bout you? The miserable Hullys went down today to visit the Navins - didn't invite me! Went to 11:45 Mass - the whole family. Joanne was sitting 2 benches/seats in front of Patty & me, and during the Consecration she startled the people beside us by crawling over them to sit beside us. We all went to the Hibernian outing. Nothing going on - no decent boys so Patty & I walked home from Waverley Oaks. Stopped at Ma's - she wasn't there. It was roasting but began to rain about 6. FBI wasn't on. Watched Smothers Bros & Bonanza. Started a new story.   Bye"


"Monday, June 26                            5 days left

Dear Diary,

Oh, how I hate to get up! It's just like I'm still in school. Got to work about 9:10. Mrs Castle is on vacation. Dennis is working full time. I hate Joe - he keeps trying to prove his virility. Got home about 1:20. Patty & I were forced to take Joanne & Christine to the pool. Once they arrived there, they didn't want to go in. Patty & I were fooling with them & a bunch of other kids got almost as wet as them. Went to Hullys until 5 & walked home. Joan & I were supposed to go bicycling but only 1 bike worked. Went to Harvard Sq. Visited True for the first time - outasite! Returned to Hully's about 9:15. They're going to Falmouth Thur nite - stinkers. Johnny & I walked home about 10:15. Bye"


"Tuesday, June 27                4 days left - Thank God

Dear Diary,

HELP! Dennis wants to take me to Paragon Park after I come back from Falmouth. I said 'No!' but he won't give up. Persisted all morning. HELP! Joe did it again today - tried to impress me - YECH! Got thru at 1. Patty & I, after going to Dart Cleaners, went to the Sq. Bought a maroon sweatshirt and a plaid jacket. After supper Patty & I walked to Ma's. Took out rubbish, etc 'cause of her busted arm. Stopped at Gigi's to return her jacket - nifty looking brother. Went to Frank's - no kids et al were there except hairy Harry - lives up the street. Watched Burke's Law. It now 12:42.   Bye"


"Wednesday, June 28            3 days left

It's been a great day! Went to Canobie Lake at 9:20 with Joanie, Paul McCaffrey, & 500 paper boys. There'a a saying that during your teen years you fall in love 3 times with an older man - well, Paul's the first. I'm not actually in love with him - I like him a great deal. Joan & I had our hands stamped & got on the rides free. Mr McKenna bought us lunch ... Ruined my neck on the Roller Coaster so I didn't go on with Paul. Got home at 5:30. Moe came down for about an hour. Patty & I went to Friendly's - talked with 2 sailors - from Penn & Texas - 19 - only trouble, they were drinking.             Bye"


"Thursday, June 29         2 days left         Dia gratias

Dear Diary,

What a tragedy! Kevin Clifford, Moe & Packy Menton, Jim McMahon, Dom Russo, Mary Sliney, & 5 others were in a car accident last nite. Kevin was driving - happened near Mt Auburn & Franklin Sts - it was Kevin's birthday & he had just received his license - now he's dead. I found out at work. Was crying on the way home from work. Rumor is that Moe is dead too - she's 14 & Kevin is/was 17. It's hard to believe. I used to hate him this winter but he changed after leaving St Pat's - for the better. Moe & I were talking about him last nite - she was going to chase him. It hits me every now & then that I'll never see him again. It may seem silly - I wonder if he is in heaven or hell - if there is such a place.  Bye

Addendum from back of the diary: "June 29 - Kevin Clifford died this am - was in a car accident last nite - pinned in the front seat for 30 minutes. Doctors said he died because of the intense pain - both arms & legs were broken - he just succumbed. He was a real nice kid. I'll never forget him - gave me my first real kiss in the summer before I entered 8th grade. Remember - when we first moved here - he brought me my homework when I was sick - he used to carry my books for me when we walked home together - Sheila & Paula teasing about it. - When we visited Johnny at camp - spent the whole day with Kevin (his family didn't come) - rooting for him in the races. When he came here for Scout meetings - always hit me in the rump & would tease me when I blushed. The snow ball fights - hit me in the chest & I fell - helped me up. In the summer I'd steal his bike - later I'd sit on the seat & he'd hold the handlebars & we'd talk for hours. Standing in the middle of the street or in front of his house & talk, talk, talk. Telling me the first dirty joke I ever heard - My first kiss - Up at the park when he had a small hole in his pants - he was embarrassed & I teased him. Me hating him for 2 years because he was stuck up. Being his lab partner - Liking him again ... talking about him the nite before the accident with Moe. He was trapped in the car for almost an hour. He's being buried under a tree - He made the headlines & he would have said he left with a bang & would have laughed. His sister said that the day he died (his birthday) was the best day of his life - she had never seen him happier. He was my first friend up this way." 



"Watertown police check inside of wrecked station wagon in which 11 teenagers were injured last night. Car sideswiped utility pole on Mt Auburn St near Watertown Center, trapping two inside. (Story on Page 16)"
Unfortunately, I don't have the newspaper article. The Watertown Press and Watertown Sun are on microfilm at the Watertown Public Library -  nothing digitalized - I'll have to make a trip up there to check it out. 


"June 30                       Tomorrow is F day!

Dear Diary,

Got to work at 9:15. Received my check - $29.68. Didn't take any breaks. Everyone was extremely nice today - I think Mrs McL told them about my knowing Kevin & all. They kept me busy. Got home about 1:30. About 2 Diane Poisson, Moe, & I went to Kevin's wake - I was rather afraid to look at him but it wasn't too bad because he looked funny - unreal - wax. I started talking to the Cliffords, & I broke down. Everyone was crying. The nuns were there - they came up to me & asked if I was alright - they had been told I was in the accident & had a fractured skull. They were asking all sorts of quests, but I could only nod my head 'cause I was trying to keep my composure. I made a hasty exit & broke down in the mall.        Bye"


















 





























Wednesday, July 23, 2025

May 1967 - Mood swings, Discontent, Weight problems, Judy Whittingham's poetry

 

"Monday, May 1

Dear Diary,

Well, Sue isn't mad, but I don't like Bobby Harrington! He made up some fantastic tale about when he brought me home - the liar! Rosy, Marie de Montfort, & May Bob all yelled at me today. Monty's being transferred. Sue & I had cokes & brownies after school. I didn't feel like going to work so I took my time. Everyone was interested in the prom so I told them I had a great time. Dennis was asking about Joan again - I'm sick of it! Mary came down after supper. Went to the new Friendly's - across from Ronnie's. A nice kid named Bill works there. Watched Monkees - Sue called - Rat Patrol - went back to Friendly's - put Joanne to bed. Did homework. Still have more to do. Mailed Allan's letter.  Bye"


"Tuesday, May 2 

Dear Diary,

Went to Church during first period to practice songs for tomorrow's Mass. Got the returns from the Nat. Merit Scholarship Program Test - I had the highest mark in the room - 126 - Buffy was next with 122. Sue & I had cokes in Butler's. Met Berta & Julie, then Marie, & finally Debbie & Jill. I was 1/2 hour late for work - I don't care. I spent most of the time in the Staff Library so I didn't see Dennis too much. After supper I went collecting for the Cancer Crusade. There is a real neat kid at 96 Marshall St - his last name is Gistis - but I didn't see him when I was collecting. Patty, Lee, & I went to Friendly's, Sunnybrook, Ricotta's, & Frank's. Rat Patrol cards are out now.  Bye"


"Wednesday, May 3

Dear Diary,

Went to Mass at 11:45 as did the whole high school. Martha Melican & I spent study talking about chemistry college boards - I'm going to flunk. Sue & I had cokes, & I bought two gingerbread boys. Hafta work 9-12 tomorrow. Also have to get a working permit - I'm not bothering. Went to dancing school at 6:15 ... Mary Flynn told me Fr Cronin was transferred - holy -----! He was the best priest we ever had. Had a coke in Drug Store while Joan was on the phone. Talked with Arlene & Kathy. Linda & Elaine sat on either side of me when they came in. Walked to Friendly's with Frank. Met Joe Sylvestro. Talked on the phone with Steve & Bill - doesn't believe I'm almost 17.     Bye"                                  

                                                      


"Thursday, May 4                 Ascension Thursday

Dear Diary,

Got up at 8:15 - took my time getting ready - finally left at 9:05. Mrs Oeulette was asking for my worker's permit, & I lied - said I had looked into it. Worked till 12. Mrs Strong had a boy this am. Went babysitting at 2:15. Played outside with Cory & Joanne (I brought her along). Got home about 4 - got $1. Mrs Berg gave me a lift to the Sq. Went to Town Hall for my birth certificate (needed for working permit). Went to 5:30 Mass with Dad, Jimmy, & Chris. Went babysitting again for the Strongs at 7:15. Put them to bed at 8. Read. Walked home at 9:20. Watched more tv - nothing good on Thurs nites since Jericho was axed.         Bye"


I'm surprised at my attitude toward work and especially the working permit - can't believe I lied to the boss! I remember myself as a goody two shoes!


"Friday, May 5

Dear Diary,

Went to Wat High School at 8:30 to get a worker's permit. After waiting 45 mins, I finally gave up. Mrs Castle took me to the cottage where she stays during the week - nice & cozy. Got home about 12:20. Went babysitting at 2:15 for the Strongs - Patty came along - those kids are wild - I like Kelly Sue best. Got home about 4:30. Watched tv after drying dishes. I returned to the Strongs at 7:15. Their grand-mother is coming tomorrow. Mr Strong drove me home - he's nice. Watched T.H.E. Cat & Laredo. Mary Pat called about 10 - the Navins got back from Falmouth about 9:30. Hafta take the College Boards tomorrow. Pray for me.  Bye"


Sat, May 6 

Dear Dairy,

Got up at 7:30. Mary Power came by at 8, & we headed for Wat High. The tests started at 8:45 - the first was college entrance - 3 hrs long. Wasn't too bad. Got thru at 12. Liz & I waited for Marie & Moe in her car - got kicked out of the High School with some HS boys for making a ruckus. Mary never found us ... We 4 went to McManus' for lunch. Returned to HS at 1:15. The achievements started at about 2. English was pretty easy, Math - 1st half was easy - last 1/2 rather hard, & chemistry - forget it! - couldn't answer hardly any. Got out at 5:30. Maureen Huliston broke her arm. Mickey Joe (Michael Walsh) was down - about 6 wks old. Went babysitting at 7 - the McC's are moving to RI! Bye Margy!!   Bye"



Above is the ticket to get into the College Boards.


"Admission Ticket
College Entrance Examination Board
    2694         May 06 1967   Saturday           X       X
Center No                Test Date                    Sat    Ach    Ws
                                                                    Tests Registered 
Watertown HS - Columbia St
Watertown - Mass
Report at Test Center Address Given Above
                                                            If asterisk appears after center                                                                 address, it was impossible to                                                                     assign you to center requested.

Registration 
   Number
  2719745        Mary      E        Manning
                                59 Marshall St
                        Watertown, Mass 02172
Any further correspondence with the College Board should specify which test was taken and when, your Registration Number as shown above, and your full name and birth date."


I don't remember when or how we received the test results, but they came on this little slip of paper.



When I looked up the old scores on https://nces.ed.gov/programs/digest/d96/d96t125.asp, the verbal score average I received was 594 - the national average for 1966-1967 was 466; for females the average was 468, for boys 463.

I received 558 in the aptitude math - the national average for 1966-1967 was 492; for females the average was 514, for boys 467.

I tried looking up the achievement scores as well. This is what IA generated on my search: 
"Scoring Scale: Like other College Board SAT Subject Tests (then called Achievement Tests), the Chemistry Achievement Test used a score scale of 200 to 800." 

Wikipedia states that 575 was the mean score for the Chemistry Achievement test. I made 482. So I didn't do so well in Chemistry!

The mean score for the Math 1 Achievement Test was 543. I made 542. A mean score is the average score. So I was average.

The above report states I made EN 584 but was that English Composition (mean score 512,) or Literature (mean score 523,) or what? Whichever, I did better than average. 

I tried logging onto the College Board site but was directed to contact the College Board. I guess my account is way too old!!

"Sunday, May 7

Dear Diary,

At 11:30 Patty & I were dressing Joanne (Mum wasn't home to take care of her). We 3, Jimmy, & Dad went to Mass - met Joan & Nancy. Patty & I went for pizza - wasn't too hot. Patty said today was Mother's Day's, so we went to Fox's to get something for Mum - met Dennis S - convinced him to get his mother a card - David Appel then told us M Day is next Sunday. Stopped at Friendly's - talked with Arlene & Kathy. Moe came by about 3:30. About 5, she, Mary Pat, & I walked to Frank's. Moe went home. Mary & I went to her house. Did some algebra. Returned home to see FBI - great - Jim was caught in cave-in. Watched Carousel - fantastic! - I cried all thru it - I love Bob Goulet. It's 11:15 & I must do my homework.     Nite"


"Monday, May 8                                                             158v

Dear Diary,

Nothing doing at school - I'm bored stiff - just look at the window. Sue & I had cokes in Butlers. Got to work about 3:30. Dennis never showed up, but Mrs Staires came anyway - thought he was at work. Went down Walnut St & met him - had to stay after school. Went to American Laundry & then she drove me home. Did homework. Watched most of the Monkees - left at 7:55 for the Hibernians - Mary Flynn's Whist Party. Joan & I had our usual row. I was in a bad mood. Joan called Gil during intermission - I talked a bit - sounds groovy. Pat McD showed up about 10:30 - pretended I was mad at him. Shook hands when I was leaving.  Bye"


"Tuesday, May 9

Dear Diary,

Having a white elephant sale to raise money for some priest in South America. Sue, Marie, & I were walking down to the Sq when I pulled out a pack of Larks (cigarettes.) Marie took one but wouldn't smoke it in public. We were crossing the street, & I was pulling one out when Sue spotted Mum - that was close! (phew!) Had a coke in Butlers. Got to work at 3:50. I don't want to work this summer - just hope that Dennis doesn't go to Calif - I don't want to work his hours. Haven't been bothered for a permit lately - to hell with it! Tommy McLoughlin hasn't been here in 2 days - thank God - I guess he's not coming any more. Did homework. Read Plutarch's Life of Cicero. Watched some tv program on college.   Bye"


I am shocked to read that I had a pack of cigarettes in my Junior year of High School! I didn't start smoking till I was a sophomore in college!


"Wednesday, May 10                                                                ^

Dear Diary,

Having all sorts of quizzes these next 2 days. During study Fred de Norscia came in & asked for 2 good looking members of the World Affairs Club. (Hope this doesn't sound like bragging.) Most of the kids turned around & looked at me & told me to go. Rosey drafted me first, then Marie. Had 4 pix taken. Monty told me that I shouldn't have any trouble getting into college. Sue & I had our regular. Got to work at 5. Went to dancing at 6:10. Stopped in Fantasia's to have my pills refilled. Maureen McKenzie's brother didn't come this week - said Joan & I were cute kids - either he just meant Joanie or he needs glasses. Talked to Lee & John afterwards ... Went to Friendly's. Saw D Staires but ignored him. Got home about 9. Did homework till 11:30.   Bye"


Having my diet pills refilled after having a coke and brownie at Butler's and later going to Friendly's!!


"Thursday, May 11

Dear Diary,

Marie & I are in charge of the things for the white elephant sale. Had a movie during chem. Sue & I were talking to Rosie after school about boys - dating, etc. Sue's taking pills to lose weight too. Had a coke & brownie in Butler's. Got to work at 3:55. Everyone went to a tea, & I was left in charge of the library. Some kid called about a record, & we had a long conversation - told me not to be too lonely. Dennis saw us last nite at Friendly's. The sound is going on our tv. Started home work at 6:30. Took a break at 9:45 (Still on it at 1. Hafta to do Latin - 4 tests tomorrow. I'm still waiting for a letter from Allan.   Bye"


I can't believe that Sue & I are both taking diet pills to lose weight, yet we have at least 1 coke and a brownie every day after school! Every day! Never mind the ice cream cones, pizzas, and Friendly's! Mary Patricia, Patty, & I used to love the cheeseburgers and vanilla Fribbles at Friendly's - imagine the calories in those delicious Fribbles! What a brain disconnect!


"Friday, May 12

35 days till June 16 - 50 till July 1

Dear Diary,

Had a religion test - easy, French - easier, Latin - oral, & English -*@#$% - I forgot one author & there were about 5 of his selections - I knew titles. During Chem all but 5 of us went to White Elephant Sale. Got out at 3. Had a coke in Butler's. Met Marie Barbato, & Sue left with her. Got to work about 3:35 - early. Some kids from NY I came in - they couldn't all have been one (? one what) - one nice looking one was watching - I was on a ladder. David Walsh is here for weekend. Tommy came today. Went to Sq - Saw 'John Smith' & Lizzie - talked to her for almost a 1/2 hour. Watched UNCLE, THE Cat, & Laredo - hardly any sound from the picture box.   Bye"


"Saturday, May 13

Dear Diary,

Was 5 mins late for work - Paul was there, & Linda never showed up. Sheer hell. Lost 1 envelope - collected about $172. Paul gave me a ride home. Diane & Mary came - went to Friendly's. Joanie met us. Mary ate supper here. Mum & Dad both went out. Jody, Christine, & I went to Victory Field with Mary, Joan, & Diane to play ball. Johnny & Pete came over later & played with us. I left about 8:30. The others came down about 5 mins later. Mary & I played Monopoly while Johnny & Pete played cards - Mary burnt popcorn. We fooled around around till 11:30 - talked about all kinds of filthy things. Pete seems to like Mary but he kept staring at me all night. I don't know why. Made a fool of myself.   Bye"


"Sunday, May 14

Mother's Day

Dear Diary,

Went to Mass with Mum, Dad, & Jody. Met Joanie & Mary. Mum wouldn't let me walk home so I was in a bad mood. Went to Navins about 2:30. MPV & I played catch - hit her in the face - I felt terrible. Went to Friendly & saw David Sheehan. Tried to find a Mother's Day card but couldn't. Played baseball at Vict Field with Johnny, Jay, Tommy, & George. Joanie, Diane, & Patty came about an hour later. Johnny & Jay left. Played till almost 8. Patty went babysitting for me. MVP, Joan, Diane, & I went to Frank's. Joan & Di left about 8:30. Pete came about 8:45. I stayed a while. Everyone thinks I'm madly in love with him & say so in front of him, but I'm not. I was in a rotten mood - Mary & I were playing Monopoly in her dining room & Jay & Pete were in the living room - they seemed to be talking for our benefit. While he's with Jay, Pete acts like a bitch. He's alright otherwise. Jay makes me sick. Made a scene on the way home. MVPN must hate me. Bye"


"Monday, May 15

Dear Diary,

Getting DPT (?) booster shots this week some time. Got out at 3. Had usual in Butler's. Got to work about 3:50. It was raining. Dennis (Mama's boy) didn't show up. I despise both him & Joe. I can't stand Joe - he's trying to prove something (that he's very masculine or something) by trying to show Dennis up - the ass. Good old Tommy was here. The tv is still on the blink but we watched the Monkees - repeat, Felony Squad - sewer episode - it was terrific, & Rat Patrol - Mark was injured! - Fantastic - best of all of 'em.  Bye  5/17/67"


"Tuesday, May 16

Dear Diary,

No shots today. Sue wasn't in school. Got to work at 3:40. Dennis didn't come today either. Walked home - at least today it was nice. After supper I went to King's with Mary, Janet, & Carol - they want to come to Fal July 2-5. That'll stink - Mary'll be with them & Joan with Janet - and I'll be stuck alone. Met Joan - wanted me to go to Kenmore Sq to meet Gil & Jace - if it hadn't been dark, I would have. Up till 11:30 with homework.  Bye. (5/17/67)"


"Wednesday, May 17

Dear Diary,

No shots today either. 11A is having a hot dog day next Wed. Had a movie during Math & Chem. During Study all the girls had to clean the chem lab. Sue, 4 others, & I stayed till 5:40 with Monty - didn't know how late it was. Talked about everything under the sun - sex education, Cameron & Clarke, Chem, Mary Power, College Boards, nuns, etc. Walked Sue to Sq & went to Hully's - called Mum - Sue's mom had called - was frantic - she'll be killed. The Park gang took up a collection to have a boy kiss ____ - got $27. He kissed her, & kids told her that was how you got pregnant - she believed them! Spilled the beans to May Bob after school. Went to dancing school - doing 5 or 6 dances in the recital (June 15th). Joan, Diane, & I went to Friendly's. Liz called - wants me to be on a debate for capital punishment - called at 9  - hadn't done any homework.   Bye"


I can't believe the cruelty of what happened to this girl! At a Catholic School no less! I am squirming at things I have been saying in this diary - don't like this one, hate that one, not taking work seriously - I always thought I worked hard at Perkins! But what happened to this girl was unconscionable.  Kids can be cruel and do have to learn what is right and wrong, etc. But that no one from the Park gang would think this was cruel and stop it! I thought I was bad not wanting to hang out with the kid who attempted suicide! I'm glad I had forgotten about this incident - I can't stop thinking about it now.


"Thursday, May 18

Dear Diary,

What a great debate! Claire & I just sat there & said nothing - everyone was for it & directed their comments to Martha. Liz ended it at 9:30 & told the Sodality I was directing a discussion on trial marriages - free love. (I had suggested that for the debate.) I had to defend it tho' I'm not in favor of it - everyone was against it. Told Rosey we were in Chem lab till 6 talking about filthy things (kidding). She said she had heard about the content of my conversations from different levels - I'm too terrible! Had a coke at Butler's. They weren't mad at Perkins. Dennis was there. His mother didn't pick him up, so we started walking. Eddie pulled up & gave us a ride - he's a great kid no matter what anyone says. Patty & I went to Sq about 8:15. Bought a jersey & shorts (latter didn't fit but they will - they're slim).  Nite"


"Friday, May 19

28 days till school's out and 43 till Falmouth

Dear Diary,

Still no shots. No Florentia either. Monty is fed up with us & refuses to teach us - gives us things to write out & just sits there - like that for the rest of the year. Had a coke, & Mary Joyce invited herself along. Sat on a bench near the river, & she left us. Got to work about 3:50 - got paid $19.88. Walked home with Dennis - Eddie never came. Mary & Joan are on an overnite at Cedar Hill, Moe's mad - nothin to do. Mary Power called up - hafta babysit tomorrow for one of her clients. Watched tv. Patty & Lee came in about 11 & we went to Friendly's. Neat kids hang out there. Walked Lee home. Came home to bed. Pete never came up afta Scouts - wonder what he thinks of me now? (I'm not sure I want to know)  Nite"


"Saturday, May 20                     Stayed over at Navin's

Dear Diary,

Went to work as usual - Paul was there. Eddie Falter & a gang of 7th graders came in - caused a riot. Eddie got me a vanilla Fribble cause I'm such a nice kid - terribly thick (the Fribble that is.) Got home about 2:30. Moe called - wanted me to babysit but I couldn't. Went to her house - loafed, played basketball. Bruce Palmer (of Demolay & Fellowship) came by. Moe & I went to Frank's with him. Seems nice. He came back to Moe's. Ellen & I played basketball while Moe talked with him. We joined them later. Left at 5:30. Went babysitting for Goodmans at 7:45 - kinda rich - got to Navins at 11:45 - got $3 - generous. Washed my hair in the kitchen & talked with Jay. Mary got home about 1. Exchanged diaries. It's now 4:45 & birds are chirping.  Nite"


"Sunday, May 21 

Dear Diary,

Got up at 12:45 (It was 5:45 before we went to sleep.) Went home for dinner.  Helped Patty collect for Leukemia. Went to Gistis' & saw Chris (?) - What a hunk!! Saw Ronnie playing ball in Philips school yard - he gave Patty a nickel. Mary & I went to Friendly's. Later she, Patty, & I played catch. Went to 5:30 Mass - met Dennis on way home - he blanks. Jim, Kathleen, & Jimmy came down. Went to Navins - made a hamburg for Pete (I think he hates me, I don't blame him). Went to McLoughlin's with Mary.  Nite"


(I wrote Dennis 'blanks' in my diary - I didn't edit it.)


"Monday, May 22

Dear Diary,

Gave up a chance to sing for graduation - Rosey wanted volunteers to sing for Confirmation on Thurs & I didn't want to lose a day at Perkins - the kids that sing at Confirmation sing at Graduation. Bought new shoes - the nails in the heels of my old ones are coming through. Mrs Staires ( has a new car) picked us up - I was hoping Eddie would. Sue, Paul, & Mikey picked me up at 7:10 - went to class nite. It was pretty good. I was willed Mary Kelleher's tardy marks. Alice Nelligan graduates this year. Met her outside & we were crying & hugging each other (she used to be my best friend - & no matter what happens she will always be very, very close to me). Paul & Mikey picked us up at 9:30. They're mad cause I didn't wave to them on Sunday - I didn't even see them.  Bye"


"Tuesday, May 23

Dear Diary,

 I was chosen as a member of the National Honor Society. 8 Juniors, all girls were chosen. I was elected to give the acceptance speech - fun!  Had to practice so missed Latin & Eng. Sue & I had our usual in Butler's. Went to work - Mrs Staires picked us up. After supper Patty & I went to Parker Drug, Sunnybrook, & Friendly's. At the latter we saw Ronnie - talked a while - was in a hurry. Returned to Parker Drug and SB with Navin. Did homework, memorized speech (I'm still not sure of it & I spent almost 2 hours intermittently on it - only 3 sentences), & ironed. At 11 I found I had no nylons so I pulled out all my old ones & Finally found a good pair. Pray for me.  Bye"


"Wednesday, May 24         Hot Dog Day

Dear Diary,

Martha Melican picked me up at 8:30. Brought pots & grills to hall & then we practiced for the National Honor Society. At 9:30 the Induction began. Mum, Dad, & Jody were in the audience as was Hannie. The speech went over pretty good considering I was petrified. After that I stayed & helped the woman prepare the hot dogs. The kids started over about 12:10. I sold candy. Made about $79 altogether - not all profit. Had a May Procession. Missed Rel, French, Latin, Eng, & Math. Got out at 2:50. Had coke at Butler's. Went to work. Mrs Staires didn't come & Dennis told Eddie not to. Went to dancing school. Have to get ready for Feis June 4. Went to Friendly's. Saw Ronnie & Dottie. Met Patty & Lee & came home with them.  Bye"


Interesting that I list Wednesday as Hot Dog Day and not National Honor Society Day! Priorities!!

I have always hated Public Speaking - I turn red, my palms sweat, my heart races, knees get wobbly, I have trouble concentrating. I have tried Public Speaking Classes at Northeastern University and at Tufts Health Plan, I have begged managers not to include it in my evaluation goals. I must have a phobia about it.



"National Honor Society
Saint Patrick High School
Chapter
Induction
May 24, 1967"





"National Honor Society
Induction

Star Spangled Banner .................................................. Students
Welcome.......................................................... William Sullivan
History and Organization of Honor Society .......Donna, Russo, 
Lawrence Tiberio
Interpretation of Emblem ....... Maureen Maloney, Albert Smith

**********Illumination of Candles**********
Nancy Roth                                Lawrence Tiberio
John Fantasia                       Maureen Maloney
Roll Call of Candidates ............................. Sr Mary Robert, OP
Pledge ............................................................. William Sullivan
Reception of Candidates ............................ Sr Mary Robert, OP
Honor Members' Welcome ............................... William Sullivan
Response ................................................... Mary Ellen Manning
Remarks ................................................... Rt Rev M J Houlihan
                                                   Rev Edward M Markowski, OP
Selections ................................................................ Senior Class"





"National Honor Society 
Membership Card
Issued to Mary Ellen Maning
Saint Patrick Chapter 11946
Sister Mary Robert, OP Principal
Freeworth Bumpkins, Secretary"



"National Honor Society Installation Pledge
Aware of the honor which is being bestowed upon me/by my election to membership in the National Honor Society/I pledge to maintain my high scholastic standing/to hold as fundamental and worthy, an untarnished character/to endeavor intelligently and courageously to be a leader/and to give myself freely & generously in the service of others. / In so doing, I shall prove myself worthy of a place in the National Honor Society."



"Thursday, May 25        2 wks & 1 day till school's out

Dear Diary,

Raining when I left for school. Later it turned into a Northeaster - the wind was unbelievable! Didn't have Flo or Monty today. Definitely getting booster shots tomorrow - the nurse was around today. Got out of school at 2:30. Sue had to sing at Confirmation so we waited in school till 3:15 - she went to Church & I went to Hully's. It was pouring. About 4 Dad picked Jimmy & me up, & drove me to work. Not much doing there - I hope Dennis & Joe quit - especially Joe. Not much doing. Listened to records, finally wrote to Mary J, did homework, & watched tv. Sue & I might go to the Sophomore Dance. I don't actually want to go - I can go or babysit for Dickies - I need the money.  Bye"


St Pat's didn't have a nurse on staff but contracted with the Watertown Health Department for a Public Health Nurse to provide immunizations, eye and ear tests, and anything else needed health wise. I think one of the nurses was Mrs Corcoran or Mrs Concannon?


"Friday, May 26                                    (written 5/28/67)

Dear Diary,

We had 'em - they hurt! Got sick afterwards - everyone knew it. I felt better so didn't go home. Not much doing. Had our usual in Butler's. Slipped away from Mary Joyce. I despise Dennis & Joe - the latter especially. Mrs S picked up Eddie today - unfortunately D wouldn't relinquish the front seat so Eddie got stuck with Joe (he doesn't like him). I'm walking home from now on! Went babysitting for Dickies at 7:30. Told Mikey (? Mikey Dickie - one of the kids?) that Pete was coming over & we'd be making out. He said if Pete kissed me, he'd punch him in the mouth. Did some homework. Got home at 1:30. Got $3. Watched tv till 2:30.  Nite"

I guess I chose babysitting over the school dance! But did I buy a ticket?


"Saint Patrick High School Class of '69
invites all to
"On A Carousal"
Friday Evening, May 26th, 1967
8 o'clock to 11 o'clock
Saint Patrick Parish Hall
Church Hill St., Watertown
Featuring The 'EMMANONS'        Donation 99 cents"



"Saturday, May 27

Dear Diary,

Paul picked me up today. Linda didn't send for tickets for the DC 5 concert (Dave Clark 5) because she can't find the ad for it. Most of the paperboys are neat kids - only they are too young. The oldest is Tim ____ & I hate him. Paul ain't coming for the next 3 wks. He brought his old Air Force helmet & let the kids try it on. I tried it & then couldn't get it off - very embarrassing. Navin & I went to Waltham - had to wait a 1/2 hour for a bus both ways. Bought a dress for summer (Falmouth) $4. Went to McClennens at 6:45 - they didn't leave till 7:15. Moving Mon. Navin came to say bye to Margy. I'll really miss her - I just love her. They want me to babysit for them sometime during the summer. Stayed overnite at Navin's. Lee, Kathy, & Marsha were positive someone was in the house. After a while we were all petrified. Jimmy McMahon & Mike McManus came & searched - felt like a fool. Mary arrived about 12:30? Pete stayed over too - neither of us said a word. Chris is home for the summer.  Bye"


I did love that baby - Margy - I was so sad when they moved away. We all loved her. The dental hygienist at Dr Dinjian's was an aunt to Mr or Mrs McClennen and I would always ask about Margy when I went to the dentist. I wonder what happened to her?


First Communions are usually held on a Saturday in May I believe. Below are Mum and Dad with Jimmy on his First Communion in front of St Pat's Church. Mae Keohane, my mother's 1st cousin, was his Godmother; my father's brother, Danno or Franny was his Godfather I believe. We were recently talking about this - Patty, Christine, and I - Christine was remembering being jealous that Jimmy was getting mail - cards and packages - from Mae because she lived in Somerville, didn't drive, and we didn't see her often. Christine's Godparents were Rita and Dickie Walsh - my mother's sister and brother-in-law - they lived in Waltham so we saw them often.    

I don't have any mention of the First Communion in my diary which surprised me because this picture was from my camera. But I worked on Saturdays so maybe I needed the money more than I needed to see Jimmy make his First Communion. I also thought there was a Communion picture somewhere with Mae in it as well. And there must have been some kind of party or celebration, wasn't there?
 




"Sunday, May 28

Dear Diary,

Woke up about 9:30 & couldn't go back to sleep. Got up at 10:30 as Chris & Pete left for Mass. Mary & I went to the 11:45 Mass. Saw 'David' & Spider - I hate him. Walked home. Had turkey for dinner. After cleaning the room, went to the Navins - Mary & I went to Friendly's, then to drugstore. Met Lee McM & Patty. Returned to Navins - played piano, listened to records. Left about 6. Left at 7:15 with Mary for graduation - I went to see Alice & Roy, Mary for Bev (? Beverly Brown? I think she used to date Chris). It wasn't too impressive - the girls were all crying. Afterwards we were congratulating everyone - shaking hands, kissing, hugging. Got jealous when Alice kissed Mary, Diane, & Joanie. Monty was kissing & hugging Peter Liddell - very shocking. Walked to Sq with Sue - she had a fight with Paul.  Nite"



"Monday, May 29                                    JFK Day

Dear Diary,

I couldn't fake it - Mum remembered that yesterday I said I didn't want to go to school. Made $72.16 on Hot Dog Day for Fr Breslin. Got out at 3. Sue & I went to Butlers & 5 & 10. Got to work at 4. Today was JFK Day - Rosary, Mt Trinity, Waltham didn't have school. Walked home from work although Mrs Staires, Dennis' uncle, & Grammy came after him & offered me a ride. Got home about 5:20. After supper I called Sue. Had a fight with Mum & Patty over who was babysitting - I was going to go out with Sue, & Patty wanted to go to baseball practice. I finally gave in. Sue came about 6:45. Brought Prom pix - it was good - I looked best in hers. I dislike Harrington & to think he kissed me! Yeck! Went to Friendly's with Patty & Lee.  Nite"


May 29 was JFK's birthday - this must be why we were celebrating it. Memorial Day didn't become a Monday holiday until 1968 or 1971. 



"Tuesday, May 30                                    Memorial Day

Dear Diary,

Slept till 12 - would have slept later but Moe called. Cleaned room & went to the store. At 2:30 went to Moe's. Marie B & Marie ? were there with Ellen. About 3:30 Ellen & I started to wash the car. Soon it turned into a water fight between Denise (Stinehart) & me. We were spraying each other with the hose - I was soaked - literally soaked - hair, leathers (?), even undies. Moe lent me a sweatshirt & shorts at 4:30 when we went in, & Ellen came here for dry clothes. Marie & Liz came about 4:40, & we 4 went off in Liz's car - waving at boys, etc. Arrived home about 6. Had a picnic in backyard. Came in & watched tv, did homework. Joan, Mary, & Carol M came down but I didn't go with them ... Watched 'My 6 Loves' - good. It's now 12:11.   Nite"


When we ate outside - picnic or cookout, we brought out a tablecloth for the picnic table, china and silverware, all the food and condiments, the kettle of water to keep it warm for tea, and maybe a pot of beans, or corn, or anything that needed to be kept warm. We all loved to eat outside but it was more work than eating in the house!!



"Wednesday, May 31

Dear Diary,

Had a surprise religion test - it was tres difficile. Had an English test - I hadn't studied for it - c'etait impossible! Got out at 3 - had drinks in Butlers. Was annoyed with Cook. Got to work about 3:40. Crossing in the Sq, a cop yelled & told us to hurry. I ran & the strap of my schoolbag broke - plunk - my schoolbag was in the middle of the street. Had a lot of books to put away today. Got a ride home. Graduation from WHS is June 9 the day we go to Canada. Went to dancing school. Forgot $1 for the Feis which is Sunday. I'm going to get a medal no matter what - although it will probably be 3rd place. Went to Friendly's afterwards with Joan & Diane. Mary came in. Got home about 8:45. Watched 15 mins of Virginian & I Spy. Doing homework.  Bye"
 


"The Curious Savage - A Talent Show
Applause boomed from four audiences totaling 848 people on April 7th, 8th, 9th, an 10th, in response to the superior performances of the senior class in "The Curious Savage". The cast payed a tribute to John Patrick's witty play with a display of talent which continually brought response from the viewers throughout the presentation. Kathryn Whittingham (our distant cousin) was superb in her characterization of Mrs Savage, and each member of the cast deserves special praise for the remarkable acting which captivated the audience during the entire performance. As Mrs Paddy, Linda Maffioli never failed to bring down the house after each recitation, and Janice O'Hara's impersonation of Florence was heart-warming. John Regan portrayed Jeff skillfully, and William Duncan, Paul McCurley, and Ronald Parent were all excellent in their acting. Mary Kelleher was unforgettable as Fairy, and Mary Neenan created a genuine character in her performance. As the sanatorium workers, Frederick DeNorsica and Donna Russo were admirable. The production staff must be commended for a fine job in supplying the labor for the play's presentation, and Mrs June Condon again proved her talents as director in making the play a success. After the Monday night performance bouquets were presented to Mrs Condon and the senior girls in the play."



"Equality?
Hidden deep in the Declaration of Independence there is a phrase, though quite short, which encompasses the reason for which our country was formed. It is 'All men are created equal.'
This phrase probably has a familiar ring, but perhaps you have heard it more often with a few extra words attached. For instance, all men are created equal except Negroes or except Jews or any other combination which perfectly fits the beliefs of some fanatical supremist who refuses to give up hope that one day there will be a superior race.
The primary reason for inequality still being present in our society today is the lack of education in too many people, who without a solid schooling lie prey to the twisted thinking of a bigot. It is going to take, in addition to the proper educating of all citizens, much legislature and reform to erase the stain of prejudice from our country. When the Civil Rights legislation was passed, many thought that it marked the end of all discrimination of any type. However once a law is passed it must be enforced. 
When all bias, prejudice and discrimination are eliminated, and all citizens face reality and realize that all men are created equal, it will be cause for great rejoicing for inequality has always been one of our most important social issues.
                                                                    John Hillier"


John Hillier lived across Green Street from the Hulistons and was in my grade at school. His essay rings especially pertinent today in the divided country we live in with so many citizens of diverse ethnicities as well as documented and non-documented residents facing discrimination - with diversity cast as evil, and with bigoted politicians trying to erase history and dumb down our citizens. We must continue to speak the truth to power and protest tyranny.


"Letter to the Editor 
In this age of identity, the figure who 'identifies' with a cause is often its greatest supporter. In the last edition of The Shamrock, I noticed that Small Pedro 'identified' with Fr Breslin's cause. It seems to me that quite a few of the students have had no chance to become acquainted with our mission symbol, therefore I would like to pass on some information about him. Small Pedro was adopted by the students of St Patrick's last year as a representative of the many poverty-stricken children in South America. He was visualized as a hungry, undernourished charity case, huddled in the confines of his oversized sombrero. The Pedro appeal gathered over fifty dollars for the Dominican Friars in South America during the one-classroom campaign; this year a school-wide campaign should collect enough funds to feed and clothe many more Pedros. The age of our impoverished little friend is unknown, but he can't be too old because the living conditions in places like Chimbote, Peru, create an average life expectancy of about forty-five years. A significant percentage of Pedro's friends never live through their childhood years, and the infant mortality rate is drastic. If Pedro were to lift his sombrero, I am sure we would find him dressed in rags like most other needy South Americans and his eyes would convey the pain of hunger which can be seen in the faces of two-thirds of the earth's people. There are numerous stories about Pedro and his struggle for survival, but rather than try and tell them all, I would suggest that you take a look at some of the actual pictures of families like Pedro's, which are now on the Bulletin Board. One picture is worth a thousand words.
                        Sincerely your,
                                     John Navin"


My cousin's article reminded me of the fabulous education I received at St Pat's. Sure I may have complained about the nuns, but I received such a well rounded education that I will always be grateful. In addition we were supplied with the fundamentals of our Catholic faith - although now I question many of those same beliefs and have lost much of what was once a very strong faith, I have hope with the election of Pope Francis and now Pope Leo. They are opening up the Church and ushering out the old white boys' club. I couldn't be happier - unless I got my faith back!!


In the article about the Honor Roll, I received First Honors in the Junior Class while Mary Navin received them in the Freshman Class. My other cousin, Joan Huliston, received Second Honors in the Freshman Class also. 


"A Summer Night
Wandering down a darkened street, quietly all alone,
Having nothing to think about, but that which is my own;
Life is easy and gentle as I walk and watch the sky,
Love is love and peace as the world moves slowly by.

On a clear night such as this, hair touched by the wind,
It seems the world is at peace, and people have never sinned.
The stars are twinkling brightly, shedding their softest light;
My heart has not a vengeance and my soul is shining bright.

The fuel of the Gloried and the damned has ended, is no more
Now the world's remaining ages can pass through the Golden Door;
Love is flowing throughout the world, freely with kindness and light, 
The stars clarity proves all this, in the warmth of a summer night.
Kathryn Whittingham" (our cousin)


My cousin John Navin was Assistant editor for Page one of The Shamrock. 









I tried to blow up the picture from the Shamrock on Page 4 of Marie Vander Hagen on left and me on right but it came out pretty blurry. The article is about the World Affairs Club. This came about back when Fred DeCorsica was looking for 'good-looking' girls from the WA Club for a picture - a little chauvinistic perhaps?

"WA Discusses WA
In the face of significant world problems, a group of Junior and Sophomore students have joined together to discuss and learn more about the salient issues. Marie Vander Hagen, Mary Ellen Manning, Elizabeth Craig, Diane Patrick, Mary Craig, David Burns, David De Bale, and Richard Tardiff compose the World Affairs Club. Under the direction of Sister Emerita the members expound on the various social and political issues. 
At a recent meeting, Sister Emerita showed the group film strips of Red China. These were followed by individual opinions. On occasion the discussion at these gatherings are spontaneous and can often vary from the topic of the Vietnam turmoil to that of the controversies in Russia. Elizabeth Craig and Marie Vander Hagen will analyze nationalism in Asia and Africa at the next meeting."

"Spring!

Spring.
The 
world 
is
puddle-happy,
green crazy, 
and 
flower silly.
Spring. 
The 
sky 
is blue silly
sun happy,
and 
rain crazy.
Spring.
am
love crazy,
song silly,
and
laugh happy. 
Spring!
                                                        Kathryn Whittingham"